Guest Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 So I was talking with a friend of mine this evening and he said something that kind of hurt my feelings. Just some background, we've always been rather flirty with one another and even messed around about a year ago. The past couple of months we've been talking more and I recently moved closer to my hometown (where he's from). I always thought that once I was closer (I had been in college) he would ask me out. Tonight we're chatting away and somehow we got on the topic of "us." He then throws out there that he wouldn't date me because I slept with someone that he doesn't not care about at all. I asked him if that was the lone reason he wouldn't take me out and he said yes! What the hell! I even reminded him that we messed around but he said "it was different." Do guys really hold those kinds of things against you? And ladies, would you hold that against a guy?
whattothink Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 So I was talking with a friend of mine this evening and he said something that kind of hurt my feelings. Just some background, we've always been rather flirty with one another and even messed around about a year ago. The past couple of months we've been talking more and I recently moved closer to my hometown (where he's from). I always thought that once I was closer (I had been in college) he would ask me out. Tonight we're chatting away and somehow we got on the topic of "us." He then throws out there that he wouldn't date me because I slept with someone that he doesn't not care about at all. I asked him if that was the lone reason he wouldn't take me out and he said yes! What the hell! I even reminded him that we messed around but he said "it was different." Do guys really hold those kinds of things against you? And ladies, would you hold that against a guy? I don't think I would hold it against a guy, I would just make him work harder to get in my pants and then pull out the best moves the first time!!! I wonder if he's really interested or if he's just saying that.
SoCalCatman72 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 And ladies, would you hold that against a guy? I want to tell a woman that she has a great body, and have her hold it against me.
Guest Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 I want to tell a woman that she has a great body, and have her hold it against me. Hahaha! I was being serious! It seems petty to me! Big deal! I'm from a small town and I think we'd all be linked to each other with only a few threads!
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