mpracing4 Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 My Girlfriend and I broke up last week after 9 months. She just told me that the atmosphere when we are togetehr is like being friends only. I kissed her, hugged her and told I loved her, I can't Figure out what happened. Well, "technically" we didn't break up, we're just "taking a break" and she still wants to have sex. I still love her, and she says she still has feelings, but doesn't want to date. I don't want to wait, honestly. Im just all tied up in a mix of emotions. Anyone have any advice as to what to do or think?
superconductor Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 It's over, dude. By all means, is she still wants to sleep with you, go ahead, but don't expect any emotional commitment.
johan Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 If the idea of breaking up and being around waiting for her to meet someone else bothers you, then don't agree to continue having sex or any other form of contact with her. I think it bothers you. I think sometimes a woman offering to continue having sex is kind of a little bone to throw you as she backs out. Maybe it lessens the guilt. If your relationship had any meaning to you, you wouldn't show disrespect for it by turning it into a meaningless physical one. The feelings you had were real, and you shouldn't sell yourself short by trying to deny them. Just walk away with dignity.
DanielMadr Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 My Girlfriend and I broke up last week after 9 months. She just told me that the atmosphere when we are togetehr is like being friends only. I kissed her, hugged her and told I loved her, I can't Figure out what happened. Well, "technically" we didn't break up, we're just "taking a break" and she still wants to have sex. I still love her, and she says she still has feelings, but doesn't want to date. I don't want to wait, honestly. Im just all tied up in a mix of emotions. Anyone have any advice as to what to do or think? Its over. Dont be her sex slave mano. Tell her adios and find better girl and live on. If you send her away and be okay she might want to turn back.....dont count on it and I would recomend to dump her definetely. She will dump you again in the first sign of weakness.
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