Guest Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 When dating how can you honestly tell if the man is going to change his ways. If the man is really sweet and caring, thinks the world of you, promises to make you happy, never hurt you..blah blah blah. All this happens in the courting phase and then over time, some longer then others, it dissapears. I find that I'm the one doing all the nice things to them, with nothing in return. Right now I'm dating someone who is being all sweet to me..even cooking meals (very sexy). He wants to be with me forever and promises he will always be good to me. I listen to him and smile..but deep down I'm thinking every man has told me this, and every man ends up taking me for granted. They are not mean or anything..they just get lazy about the relationship and I do all the nicey stuff for them with nothing in return. SO....I know there are men out there who truly want to keep a relationship healthy and happy but I don't want to waste time (I think it takes a couple of years to know) on someone who may be just wooing me. Stupid question, but is there a way to tell whether they are just saying sweet things or are they truly a nice guy.
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