aflp4 Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 14 months and my boyfriend just broke it off about two weeks ago. We spent the whole summer together and right before we headed back to school he told me that he wanted to have a great senior year and wasn't sure that having a girlfriend would allow that. He said that he still loves me and cares about me, and whenever we talk about our relationship and our breakup we both start to cry. I just went to visit him and school and he treated me and even introduced me to his friends as his girlfriend. He still calls me everyother night to see how I am and to make sure I am ok. He even says that he is lonely and sad up at school. I just want to know how I can get him to realize how good we are together and that he can have a great senior year with a girlfriend. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.
Poboy Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 you will have to do something out of the blue to get his attention, try any of these or all making a memory gift box with things you two would have shared A really intimate/ serious poem or letter to show what he means to you & how you can be in life forever a gift that he would really cherish forever ...
Author aflp4 Posted September 3, 2006 Author Posted September 3, 2006 About a week ago I write him telling him how much I loved him and miss him and everything that I was feeling.I made sure not to say that he was wrong in ending things and just tried to show that I cared for him and that I wanted to stay close even if it was just as friends. He has called me since then to see how I was, but has not mentioned the email. I know that it has been read. Should I bring up the email or just forget about it since he did not care to mention it? Also should I stay in contact with him? And if he calls me is it ok to answer? Thanks for the advice.
Growlrifle Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 As you can see in my own post. But it might be an idea to not mention it and just showing you cared by being there when he needs you (not in a way that he can hurt you or mess around and you forgiving everything). He sounds nice and missing you out of what your typing. I mean he keeps calling with the excuse to check on you. But it also seems like he misses you alot. It might be trough peer presure that he did this, is he in a fraternity? They might all be doing things he feels is wrong to do against you but is under the presure to do so. So he wanted to break it so he doesnt hurt you or have problems with his own feelings of regret. Sorry for my lack in Grammer and bad spelling, my native language isn't the English one .
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