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MEN I need u'r input... I'll make it brief

rivercitygal668

By rivercitygal668
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rivercitygal668 New Member

rivercitygal668

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to summarize:

 

:D (RELATIONSHIP BACKGROUND)

I've been seeing a wonderful man for a little over a month. We had a great conneciton from the get-go. We both make each other laugh... it's just easy to be together etc. NOTHING has gone wrong or happened or ANYTHING.

 

:( (HIS BACKGROUND)

Was married for 17 yrs. She ran off with the younger LAWN boy and remarried this past July. He has been divorced for 8 months.

 

:confused: (THE PROBLEM)

five days ago he said he was feeling a little overwhelmed... he said he really really likes me, thinks I'm wonderful, has a great time with me, loves that we laugh and talk and can relate to each other so well BUT he just wants to make sure that if he's going to be with me he can be with me "full tilt" (I take that to mean emotionally) and that he would like to take it easy for a couple weeks.

 

(MY PROBLEM)

:( He still has some of my personal stuff and assured me that we would be talking soon. I've just never met someone like this. We are wonderful together. I understand his apprehension (with his long marriage etc.) I was married for 3 yrs. and have been single for 2yrs. Is this "TOO SERIOUS TOO FAST" thing normal? Should I not feel so rejected? I'm afraid I'm being selfish by worrying about 'when is he going to call!!!' I need to hear from some guys to help me understand what's going through your minds when you feel this way.

 

CAN YA HELP ME OUT ANY?? PLEASE

 

I want to call him so bad or send him a text message or an email... do I just wait for him??? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

princessa Established Member

princessa

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Wow I don't wanna be as pretentious as to give advice to somebody who's been through a marriage.. But isn't it common sense that after being married for 17 years you'd still be a mess even though it's been 8 months since the break up? I mean maybe he's just confused.

ilmw Established Member

ilmw

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Wow I don't wanna be as pretentious as to give advice to somebody who's been through a marriage.. But isn't it common sense that after being married for 17 years you'd still be a mess even though it's been 8 months since the break up? I mean maybe he's just confused.

 

After being with someone that long... it should take him quite some time to get over them... regardless of the circumstances....

 

Just think of his trust issues alone....

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