fabulousgal Posted September 1, 2006 Posted September 1, 2006 So I was just walking today, and the mind started spinning. I suddenly I felt that horrible hole I was in after my ex and I broke up. Weird, it came out of nowhere. I just thought how awful it was to see someone change the way they talked to you, looked at you, and touched you so quickly. I fell deep and I thought it was mutual, there were no red flags. I've improved a lot since the 2 months after, I barely think about it. Sure it still stirs up emotion, but nothing like today. I felt it all over again. So weird.
Blackfrost Posted September 1, 2006 Posted September 1, 2006 wait until you get a vivid dream of your ex, a year or two from now, that will mess you up just as bad. I still get the odd dream here and there of the ex, and I wake up kind of disturbed.
Maddy7777 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 ...I just thought how awful it was to see someone change the way they talked to you, looked at you, and touched you so quickly. I fell deep and I thought it was mutual, there were no red flags... I had the same thing. It was my first relationship and now when I look back there were little things that were noticeable, but i was blinded by his lies and my love for him to notice. However, I was so shocked when he said he didn't love me anymore - I didn't expect it either. It felt as if my boyfriend was replaced by this other man who looked like him but wasn't, like some sort of evil twin. So I can understand completely and it isn't odd. To me, feelings like that shouldn't just change so suddenly. It just isn't right. So it is weird. I hope it helps knowing that you aren't alone.
Brittanyjean06 Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 Eh I know how you guys feel, still get those every once in a while dreadful dreams causing my mornings to feel like complete doo doo. Even with it being a year...I think at any given point in time anything can trigger those feelings. Time doesn't heal you, a new love does. The pain subsides but it can just as easily feel like yesterday that the break up ended.
KittenMoon Posted September 5, 2006 Posted September 5, 2006 Hah, I had a dream about a guy I used to like in high school the other night. We were making out. But that was an infatuation I had put to bed long ago, my brain just dragged it back up. And though I feel nada for him in the slightest now, my brain still remembered a few feelings. The dreams of my current ex- yeah those suck. They can ruin a morning. And they're not going to go away, I can tell. But in 10 years, they'll just be memories of feelings, just like the guy above. Just memories. So remember: just memories of feelings
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