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Hello everyone! Smile, someone out there that you don't even know exists, loves you. :)

Has anyone ever noticed that most of the people that post here have broken up around the average of around 2 years, give or take a few months?

I wonder why that is? Is it some sort of average breaking point as to when the relationship should be taken to the next level, or is this the average time when one's expectations of taking the relationship to the next level come into play?

Just curious as to what some of your opinions or experiences are is all

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I've noticed this too! I first came on here after my 2 year relationship ended and was quite suprised at the number of other people who's relationship had ended at the same point.

Perhaps it is the time when the relationship has gone past being anything casual and there are expectations on where you both should be heading in the future. I always used to hear of the 7 year itch, maybe this should now be changed to 2!

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im feeling pretty hurt now but this is my story :

 

everything was perfect for the first couple months. we moved in together after being together for 5 months. im 22 hes 20 and ive learned that i need an older guy in my life. he got a dui, and since he's had it back, he has no car. i hate driving him around and it got to me b/c he doesnt even try to get one. he's rude and nasty to me and i just had enough. he gave me a promise ring, we just got back from a cruise and everything just went bad since. all we do is fight and i know i deserve better and if it takes living at my parents house in misery then i have to deal with this till i meet someone new and better. if your in a really bad relationship, you gotta get out. theres no point in trying to change someone if they arent willing to. he made me cry soo many times and now ive learned to let go and i have to move on. he wants to try again after he gets a car but it'll be too late. you just need to be happy and 100% in love with your other but i wasnt and i wish i wouldve ended this sooner. you know, when a door closes another one opens and i just have to keep this in mind. i hope this is encouraging to anyone!!!

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Sorry but i have to disagree with that.

my girlfriend who was the love of my life just ended it with me and we had bean together NEARLY two years. i aked her to marry me over a year ago.

i loved her from day one and still love her now.

if she had said what the problems in are relationship had been then i would have done something to stop this happening. she didn't talk to me, instead just bottled it up.

so i do disagree that you can save things if you are honest with each other.

She wasn't.

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