Adam Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 I was with this girl for 4 years she has broke up with me off and on. Once for a week, then 3 days, last year it was for 6 months. Now shes 19 im 22 She started college again and she broke up with me last month for calling her a name when we got into an arguement but then she runs back to this guy she dated for a month when we were broken up last year. Now she talked to one of my friends online and said THIS TIME IM DONE when i say DONE i mean DONE! I Can't be with someone who doesnt respect me. Now during this whole month she hasn't called me, broke down, anything!! ME IM GOING NUTS... I just wanna know if there are any stories out there that girls have been so hard headed but then came back and how long did it take. I feel that after 4 years with someone you cant just drop your emotions like that and just never speak to them again unless your a robot! Is it because shes so distracted with school, this other guy, friends maybe? Because i know there has to be a point even if your the dumper when you drink too much or a memorie comes up where your just like I have to call him! But with her nothing? ...i just would like to know anyones advice or if anyone has had this same scene happen to them? Thanks Adam
lebowski24 Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 Unfortunately I have no answer for you on this one, as I have been in the same situation. We were together for 16 months, so much less than your 4 years, and I still think it's BS if she will never speak to me again. It's been about 3 months since we last spoke or had any kind of contact, besides passing each other on the street once (where we exchanged a "hi" as we walked past each other), and many failed attempts by me to call/email, which I wish I had mostly held back on because it probably pushed her away from me further. All I can say is that there could be many reasons. 1) She could be trying to get over you and can't do so if she talks to you. 2) She could be with someone else now -- the is the one I hate thinking about the most and try not to. 3) She could just be a b!tch, which is the one I try to tell myself so that I won't even want to be with her anyways. Whichever it is, I've been doing my best lately to do any sort of activity that helps me push her out of my mind, wihch hasn't been working very well lately, but it gets a little better as time goes by. Who knows, maybe one day she'll contact you again, and you can take it from there.
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