Guest Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 I don’t know if this will help me but I can’t keep still, because this is the first night alone from my girlfriend. I love her dearly and want her back in my arms so badly… that the pain is physical. I’m in a bad way and rocking and feeling short of breath while I type this. We have been together for 5.5 years and it’s been a rocky road, mainly due to our small town turning against us cos of our age. Michelle is 15 years my junior and I am now 38 years of age. If I said ‘she means more than everything to me now’, you would get the picture. We amicably are having a break to see if she can clear her head and understand whether she wants me again or not. I have not much other words except that I’m so scared in this house and may end up needing some help. Thanks for taking the time to read my distress. Scott
swirly27 Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 Aww Hurting - I am sorry you are hurting this badly..... But, you must have been thru this before right? You know it will take some time and time sucks but you WILL feel better. Thru the years we learn the hard way that sometimes things don't work out - if she needs a break, you either need to decide if you want to give her that break or move on. Some people, depending on their situation, give the person some space to figure things out.....or some people feel if they need a break from them, move on because breaks are cop outs for ending a relationship. If you love her and want to possibly reconcile, you must look at everything and really think if she is pulling your leg.......and decide if she is worth giving some space or not. if she is, which it sounds like you think she is, just give her some space. It'll be hard but if she doesn't want to be with you, you shouldn't want to be with her anyway right? Easier said than done I know.....
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