pioneer Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 ...she doesnt know its me yet. Id had a few beers one night and text her number off a different number that she does not know. We were together 5 1/2 years and she ended it, shes now living with her new boyfriend. I simply asked what she was up to and expected no reply. 2 days later i got, whos this?. Then for the next 3 days shes played guessing games as to who it is, even had her mates texting the number to try and find out. I asked her loads of time on the texts who she thinks it is. We've exchanged like 50 texts. All i wanted to do was make her think it was me, i wanted her to ask if it was me, but now im tempted to admit it is me . I said she could ask me some questions as to help her guess, she said its obvious its a bloke, then after more texts i asked her who do you think it is really, i said i didnt want to tell her who i am because there would be no point. Then she txt saying tell me who it is cus i aint playing this txt game no more and i aint txting back if you dont tell me who it is. So i said, if i tell you who it is, you probably wont txt back any way. To which i got, you might be suprised!. Then she asked is your bithday in december (which it is) so i know she kinda knows its me, im like so close to just texting and saying yeah, your right, it is who your thinking! But i dont see the point, even if shes ok with it, shes moved on, has a house with someone and everythin, even tho they have only been together 18 months. I miss her so much and wanna tell her its me, but im scared ill hurt all over again when i hear how well shes doing. But i may be wrong, she might change her number once she knows for sure its me. What do i do?????
bluegal79 Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 This is tricky! I think I wouldn't text her back at all. I know it is hard and so tempting, but she hurt you and she is living with someone now. If she ever contacts you again and asks about these texts, then play dumb and say you are not sure what she is referring to because you haven't texted her at all. Stay strong and remember you deserve so much better!
BBetsy Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 yeah, right you wouldn't text her back. you know as well as i do, you totally would. you might know you SHOULDNT, but you probably SHOULDNT have in the first place. I'd text her back. I'd tell her who I was, out of sheer curiosity as to how she'd respond. Would she say "oh my god, i've been thinking about you so much lately!"? Sounds like she might. Might not be the right thing to do, but you opened the door. Let's see what's behind it. Just be prepared for the worst and know you're gonna be fine no matter what she says. After all, you can't miss her any more than you do now, right? Good luck, man. I got my fingers crossed that if nothing else you get great satisfaction out of knowing she misses you to, that she knows she made a big mistake when she let you go, even if you don't end up with her (which you probably won't)...
Brittanyjean06 Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 Your getting your kicks out of it right now and I'm sure you really want her to know...but whats the point? you will just be hurting your self more!
DaisyBelle Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 Please stop playing games. It's not doing either of you any good at all. If you want to contact her, please do so directly. Clearly you want to, so have the nerve to do so. If the idea of rejection is too overwhelming for you, then go on with your life without her. But honestly, and I don't mean this to sound cruel, this mysterious texting isn't a mature way of facing things and might be a turn-off to a woman when she does find out who it is.
Author pioneer Posted August 31, 2006 Author Posted August 31, 2006 Well if she texts askin who it is again, i think ill say, but if she doesnt text again, i wont!
Winfield Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 50 texts traded back and forth, but she's still none the wiser (not sure I believe this) as to who you are? All I can say is both of your mobile network providers must have made a small fortune from all this nonsense... She's obviously not got your contact details on her phone any more (ie, name, number) - I reckon it's well past the time that you did the same (18 months? - way too long) and got rid of hers... Don't waste any more time / money over her - you've had your fun, but now it's time to stop - besides, if she's playing the "Guess Who" game with you, by process of elimination she's bound to know it's you. Instead, look for someone who'll know for definite it's you when you're texting...as well as play the board game "Guess Who" in the same room as you (hey, it's cheaper)!
Author pioneer Posted August 31, 2006 Author Posted August 31, 2006 50 texts traded back and forth, but she's still none the wiser (not sure I believe this) as to who you are? All I can say is both of your mobile network providers must have made a small fortune from all this nonsense... She's obviously not got your contact details on her phone any more (ie, name, number) - I reckon it's well past the time that you did the same (18 months? - way too long) and got rid of hers... Don't waste any more time / money over her - you've had your fun, but now it's time to stop - besides, if she's playing the "Guess Who" game with you, by process of elimination she's bound to know it's you. Instead, look for someone who'll know for definite it's you when you're texting...as well as play the board game "Guess Who" in the same room as you (hey, it's cheaper)! Well, messages are free, she wont have my number because im using a different one, iv also said i think she knows who i am, and i only had her number because i found it wrote down a few weeks ago, and when i text it i expected no reply!
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