newinLS Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 i met one very special gal.this gal, she is an independent , sensible and smart . And we were together abt few weeks. Everything was ok but she did mention once that she needs more time to know each other better and she said she doesnt want to move too fast. We had talked abt it and it seemed ok. Last week i went for business trip to Asia and she texted me said to me that she missed me. I said i miss her too. After that she didnt reply any thing. I thought she was busy. So ok, fine. 2 days after i texted her and she didnt respon at all , so i called her at night around 8pm and she said she was busy with her work n she was still in the office . so i said ok... A day after that she texted me again and said that she missed me alot , i said that i missed her too and said that i will call her a day after and i will see her in the weekend when i am back. in the morning , out of the blue she texted me and said " baby, i really like you and you are special for me. But i think i am not the person that you are looking for. I have been thinking abt our relationship, and i think i cant be with you. I hope we can be friends . Thank you for everything and i am really sorry " i called her and asked what happened , yet she said she knew it wont work. And she doesnt want to waste my time and her time yet she wants to be friends. And she said that she doesnt want me to be with him for sex or because i dont have any body else.i am quite sad , although this relationship is relatively new but she is so special for me, She gave me a very different feeling that i never felt with other gal. But now , i am lost. few days back she said she missed me... yet she wanted to break up with me ? Do u think she has someone else? I like her a lot and even though she is 5 yrs younger (she is in the late 20's) but she is very mature. She is very sweet , witty and gorgeus. should i come and she her again to talk to her ? did it ever happened to you guys ? how to sort this thing out ?
SmoochieFace Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 The only thing I can say is don't waste any more of your time worrying about what she is doing. She dropped you for whatever vague reasons she may have therefore she shouldn't be a concern of yours any longer. Let it go and move on. She sounds a bit flakey to me anyway (one day, she's missing you - <24 hours later, you're toast) and you could do better.
littlepiggy1 Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 Well, you've only been with her a few weeks right? She was probably still mulling over whether to persue things further and realized that she had to either commit longer or just end it. I'd try not to dwell on why she broke up. Easier said than done, I know. As for being friends... Well, they say that to soften the blow, but you'd probably do better to cut her off cold turkey. Otherwise, it will be that much harder for you to heal from this.
SmoochieFace Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 As for being friends... Well, they say that to soften the blow, but you'd probably do better to cut her off cold turkey. Otherwise, it will be that much harder for you to heal from this. I agree - newinLS: DO NOT BE FRIENDS WITH HER. Bad move. The good move is to move on and don't look back. She is a flake and being friends with her will only confuse you even more.
newinLS Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 The only thing I can say is don't waste any more of your time worrying about what she is doing. She dropped you for whatever vague reasons she may have therefore she shouldn't be a concern of yours any longer. Let it go and move on. She sounds a bit flakey to me anyway (one day, she's missing you - <24 hours later, you're toast) and you could do better. i dont know whether she is fleaky or there is a reason she did that. By far she dated with me, she never canceled my date in the last minutes and always on time. And during our dates, she always focuzed on me and not busy with sms or incoming calls . very determined person and quite commited with whatever she is doing. i want to call her badly.. miss her so much....
Recommended Posts