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When meeting someone new and you have only been out together twice,are you supposed to feel on a high the next day?? Is it normal to see the odd thing or two that your not sure if you like (eg... The way he walks,talks etc,or does this dissapear in time? How long is it suppose to take to you really are sure you want to keep seeing this person, i dont want to keep going on dates with him and then deciding i dont like him as that would be cruel.Am i possibly comparing him with my x? or maybe im not ready for a relationship yet.Or is it a normal thing when first getting to know someone,What do you think guy`s ?

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When meeting someone new and you have only been out together twice,are you supposed to feel on a high the next day?? Is it normal to see the odd thing or two that your not sure if you like (eg... The way he walks,talks etc,or does this dissapear in time? How long is it suppose to take to you really are sure you want to keep seeing this person, i dont want to keep going on dates with him and then deciding i dont like him as that would be cruel.Am i possibly comparing him with my x? or maybe im not ready for a relationship yet.Or is it a normal thing when first getting to know someone,What do you think guy`s ?

 

IMHO, you haven't given it enough time. I mean its only been two dates. I know that everyone is different in terms of how long, or short it takes to know if you really like someone. I would at least go on another date or two. Talk to him and really get to know him. If you still don't feel the chemistry, then you shouldn't continue dating him, but at least you know that you gave it an honest effort.

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Thank you riddler, we are going out again this wk/end, i shall follow your advice

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:) Your welcome.

 

Keep us informed.

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Please can i ask you a personell question? Does a man expect the girl not to pay for anything when in a bar, restaraunt etc,

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Please can i ask you a personell question? Does a man expect the girl not to pay for anything when in a bar, restaraunt etc,

 

When I am first dating someone, I don't expect it. I don't want her to think that I am a cheapskate or anything like that. After that, in my experience, she has many of the times offered to pay. I would say, that at first he should pay, but after the relationship is not so new, you should offer to pay as well.

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