angelkiss2403 Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 Ok, I am really dealing with a problem! A really good guy friend and I have always been close, since we met freshman year in college, and always had that spark. Like, really liked each other but there were always circumstances that inhibited our being together. I had a long term bf before and so on... So now, we re-met again about a month ago...went out had a great time together...basically like no time was lost. The only problem is that now I am living with someone...we don't get along and really are not in love...it is just convienient...sounds horrible, I know. Either way, all I think about is this long lost guy...and how much we enjoy each other, no matter what we do. I am just so afraid to take that step...please help me out....
freestyln714 Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 Go for it. There are so many people in this world who never had the chance to be with someone they truly loved, and truly loved being around. Do you really want to be living with someone you can honestly admit you don't love? Whether this old friend is someone you could spend the rest of your life with or not, I think you need to find someone else and get out of the relationship you're currently in with the guy you're living with. Your ultimate goal in life should be about making yourself happy, and if that means being with your old friend, then by all means, be with your old friend. Doesn't sound like you got much to lose anyways.
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