NTT148 Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 Ok, well the thing is, in the past, i've fallen in love with one of my good friends (who's a girl), and i told them how i felt, but then after this, we'd just stop talking to eachother and feel awkward whenever we're together anywhere, now, i met another girl at school, we've been friends for at least 6 months, and we talk to eachother a lot and stuff, sometimes go out to see a movie or go play some sports, but im not sure whether i should tell her how i feel about her or not, becuase i don't want it ending up like the last time, but then what if she's waiting for me to make a move, and then over time she'll just get used to us being friends and that's it. many replies have been to just tell her, or even drop a few hints to see if she feels the same way i do, but what can some of those hints be? also, we hang out with eachother a lot, but always with other friends, i really like her, but i also like our friendship. what should i do?
Guest Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 oh and to add on, when we're in a group with other guys, she tends to mess around with them, like have poke fights and stuff, but she's doesn't know them as well as she does me and stuff;we're alot closer, so i just don't understand this
Hitman10000 Posted September 2, 2006 Posted September 2, 2006 So you're one of those little nice boys that "pretend" to be a friend to my girlfriend huh? Can't be open with your feelings and hold it back. You know what, girls hate this deception and their boyfriends if they know about it feel like they want to kick your ass. Let this be a lesson to you, if you're attracted to a girl, ASK HER OUT ONE ON ONE, that's the only way she knows if you're into her. If you're going to be friends, then be friends. But not the other way around, true.. but don't listen to women who say "Friends before Sexual Relationship" , they're confused with that part. You can fix this though, but you have to disappear from her for several months before doing what I suggest.
real_freakin_skater Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 hey, dude i got the same problem but i've already handled it and my outcome was pretty good. but like you said, "people just say go for it or drop hints." i have to agree, cause i just asked her when i had the smallest of alone time with her i asked if she had feelings for me and she looked into my eyes and leaped into my arms. so just come off like its not going to effect your friendship, and if she's attracted to another dude help her out even if you are attracted to her, cause if seeing her happy makes you happy then it shouldn't matter
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