plzhlpmenw Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 year 6 months. I have become so attatched to her and used to her being in my daily schedule that i cannot even imagine what it would be like without her. And when she says she wants a break about 2 days ago i felt sick all night and all day since. She says she wants to hang out with friends more. So she has been for the last 3 days and it feels like she is trying to avoid me or let go when we hang up i feel like she doesnt care but she tells me she still loves me she just doesnt know what she wants right now... im really sick about it and feel like she has brought my selfesteem down and she even told me one time she would be ok with out me and i know i wouldnt be. I dont know what to do i want this relation ship to work more than anything and it would just KILL me for it to be over. help me i need advice please!!
MickieJ Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 As much as it hurts now, I really believe that she is being open to you about her feelings. You really wouldn't want her to pretend...drag this on for a few more months. In the mean time she might decceive you...and believe me that would hurt worse. Give her some space...and hope for the best. I know it hurts now, but it could turn around and become special again. Or you might only stay friends and eventually you will find another to love. Its better to have loved...and lost, than to never had loved.
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