Guest Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 My girlfriend and I are best friends. Recently she admitted that she lost that feeling you get between couples, basically she isn't interested in sex. I know she cares about me a lot, and she is trying to work things out. She even mentioned she wanted to see a 'shrink'. I have no idea what to do. I'm not about to brag that I am the perfect guy, but I don't think I've done anything beyond reason in this relationship. We definately can't live together if this is unfixable. If she moves out it will be hours and hours away from me, and I worry it will be the end of our friendship. I'd appreciate any advice.
Josalina Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 from a womans point of view she will get over this, what is troubling her, she sound depressed to be honest, she doesn't mean to do this to you but she just sound like she is confused with the direct of her life, i could be wrong but if u show her u r still there and love her, it may take a week or so but u will c an improvement, she needs to know u r there 4 her, talk to her, hug her be the cute this bf's r meant to be and i will be amazed if she lets you go. If she wants to see a shrink, let her, u have nothing to lose at leat she is trying to help herself and if u havent done anything like u say u havent it cant come back on u. hang in there and take care.
Rooster_DAR Posted September 9, 2006 Posted September 9, 2006 Happens in all relationships, just takes a couple who want to work through the valleys and come out stronger on the upswing. Honestly, most people these days decide to end the relationship instead of working on them. You are lucky, she is willing to go to counseling. Do it now, if you wait then you are going to wind up losing her for sure. Roost
Akasha Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 Maybe she is feeling undesired. You know that feeling a wonderful man gives me when he walks by me and runs his fingers down my arm and tells me how beautiful I look or when he puts his nose right up to my neck below my ear and inhales and tells me "mmmm I love you". Nothing dirty..just sensual.. a little sexy. Maybe she wants to know that when you see her, although you remain composed, you are thinking how you'd love to just hold her close and feel her heart beat....
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