joedizz Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 A girl I've always wanted to date starts emailing me. She started emailing me because her grandmother had passed, and our families are very close. My dad passed 2 years ago and her dad passed 10 years ago. Her email is she wants to talk. We continue talking and start usning msn. I am in a relationship with someone else but on its last leg. While msn with this girl it becomes obvious she is interested in me. Well my relationship ends. Still talking to family friend girl and I ask her to be my date at my sisters wedding (she was already invited). We hit it off and decide to see each other and take things slow. 3 weeks later she is refering to me as her boyfriend and we talk and decide to start a relationship this is July 16. Things are going amazing. On August 13 I go to her sisters house to hang out with her (in middle of moving and was living with her sister, brother in law, mother and 2 nephews but only moved in 5 days earlier) so she was tired and cranky and we decide to go out for coffee. We are sitting there when she says I can't do this any more and gives me 3 reasons. Reason 1. I'm too sarcastic. but she had never mentioned anything about it previoustly. Reason 2; She didn't like the comments being made, the comments were from family saying how we would get married and have kids, which bothered both of us. Reason 3 she woke up one day and didn't feel the same way aout me and tried to see if it would change and it didn't so she felt that it was best to not go further but, I had seen her during the week and she seemed happy and if not happier than when we first got together. So talking to people the theory I've gotten is she got scared. So I tried to contact her through email and phone saying that she didn't need to be scared and didn't get a reply for a week and then the reply is the phone calls are making her uncomfortable and we can't be like that...so I'm lost, I wasn't trying to change her mind or anything was trying to say she shouldn't be scared and think that it is the family friendship and she is scared. This was her first relationship in 6 years
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