Guest Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Help, I can't stop thinking about the ex! I miss his friendship but he always wants more. Anytime we try to just "be friends" it gets all passionate and confusing again. Our relationship was full of "drama." My ex told my anytime I wanted him back he would be there and that he "loves" me still (I doubt it and I'm sure hes seeing other women.) I'm with a great kind person now who is very trustworthy, but there is not that passionate spark there like I had with the ex. I know the current bf is better for me, but how do I stop thinking of the ex?
brickaney Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 How do you define the passion you and your ex had? It's not fair for your boyfriend to have to be with a woman who stll has feelings for someone else. You're cheating him out of having a whole and healthy relationship with you. If you told your boyfriend about your feelings for your ex how do you think he would react? Frankly I believe you should be more open and communicate those feelings to your boyfriend so he can be a part of the relationship and decisions that need to happen. Also, if you and your ex were on again off again would you call that love or healthy? There was obviously something wrong with that relationship for it to be so unreliable. Maybe you need to redefine what you want out of a relationship and find someone who can fulfill that for you. Your ex doesn't sound like someone I could respect. Solely from the fact that he doesn't respect you enough to not impede upon your current relationship. He doesn't seem to trust you to do what's right or even make your own decisions without giving his two cents. I feel bad for your boyfriend because he's totally clueless and you sound like you wouldn't have much of a problem leaving him whenever. You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and show him the respect he deserves by telling him the truth.
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