DeeBrod83 Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Hey all! Well, I've been in a couple VERY serious relationships and I've decided that now's my time to be 'single', date casually and have some fun seeing as I'm still young (23). Well, it's been going great, but I have this one guy that I absolutely CAN NOT read his signals! Here's my story: Let's call him Jack. Jack is a friend of a friend that I met about two months ago at a concert on the river. We talked and hung out and he took me out on his jetski a couple times. Nothing serious, just being friendly. Well, the next couple times we talked/saw each other we both showed some interest.... well, one night we all went to his house after a late night and hung out... well he caught me in his kitchen alone and kissed me.... can you say SPARKS!?! My god, I didn't expect that! But I didn't want to let it go any further b/c I know Jack has a little of a reputation for hooking up with girls and them falling in love with him (ha! yeah, I thought the same thing) and they harrass him and he ignores them. So I stopped it at kissing that night. Occasionally I'll txt him to see if he's going to a bar we'll be at or what he's up to, and he usually answers, but he never initiates... and we all just chaulk it up to "ah that's just Jack". Well, this weekend we were all out again and having a blast and Jack and I flirted (rather innocently) all night. Well, somehow it ended up that I was the last person he was dropping off, but instead we decided to go to his place.... well one thing let to another and, well, I had probably the BEST night of my life... and believe me so did he. Well, the next morning he tried to get me to stay with him for the day and stuff but I had plans so I had to go. Now, I'm not one of those girls that gets clingy after sex, and I don't want to be at all! But I still don't ever hear from him. If I see him it's like everything's cool, we flirt and talk and whatever, but when we're not in the same room I don't hear from him at all..... Should I just assume that that's the way he's going to be and leave it at that? Is he just an a**hole? Am I reading into this? Look, I'm NOT looking for a date, or a boyfriend or anything! I don't care if he calls me for sex again! I just find it odd that even as a friend he never contacts me..... what do you think my next move should be?
norajane Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 But I didn't want to let it go any further b/c I know Jack has a little of a reputation for hooking up with girls and them falling in love with him (ha! yeah, I thought the same thing) and they harrass him and he ignores them By spending all this time wondering, you're already falling into the Jack trap. This is how he does it and has all those girls falling for him...he gives you the attention you like, then he lets you make all the moves afterwards while he sits back. Drop it, drop it, drop it!!
Author DeeBrod83 Posted August 30, 2006 Author Posted August 30, 2006 Yeah... thanks norajane. That's what I decided to do. NC. If he wants me he has to come get me! Ha. I'm j/k, but I'm not going to play his game, I'm better than that!
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