peter3 Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 I am in love with this girl for more than 8 months. We are in the same university i.e. we study together. We live on campus. we will be taking few courses together for the Fall semester. We both are in the same circle of friends. I never dared to tell her that i love her. I just help her in a lot of things. My friends know that i love her but she didn't. But some days ago i was really drunk and she was there with my friends and i said i am in love with this girl and other stories about her but without mentioning her name. My friends told me that she understood the girl was her and she defintely knows i love her. They tell me that i don't have a chance with her anymore since i confessed my love while i was drunk indirectly. She is giving me more atention since that night in what i say. They say this is because she is trying not to break you heart. Do i have any chance with her now? How do i play the game in this case? I am really in love with this girl. I don't think i will perform good academically beacuse of this. Please help me out here. tnx a lot Peter
norajane Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Why don't you just ask her out on a date and see how things go between you? That way you'll know for sure whether there's really anything there. You can only admire someone from a distance for so long - maybe when you get to know her, you'll realize she's not an intimidating love goddess, but a girl with a mind of her own.
Sally00 Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 My boyfriend was in love with me for over 15 months. We were also in the same circle of friends. We also go to college together. He's confessed his love for me to everyone.. and yes, even me... several times. Then one day, he asked to hang out with me. I never loved him like that though... only as a friend. One day, he asked to hang out with me on a Friday night. I said sure, although I had no idea if it was just me and him. I didn't really care. The time that I realized it was was whenever he opened the door for me and I said thank you. He said, "Well, that's what you do on a date, right?" I just laughed and never answered him. We had alone times when we just talked and stuff... and also hung out with our friends. Eventually, sure enough, after the whole time of being friends with him, it seemed like a switch was just turned on. I actually liked him back. And now we've been dating for over 7 months... and we talk about the future as if we're officially engaged. So.......... I think there IS a chance with this girl... you can pull off what my boyfriend did with ME! Ask to hang out with her...... maybe open the door and tell her that's what you do on a date and see her reaction.
Author peter3 Posted August 31, 2006 Author Posted August 31, 2006 We have been going to parties together with other friends. But we don't dance together that often. There is a tension when i dance with her. Thus I hardly had a chance to kiss her at parties. Plus she is so strict in these things. And it is really difficult to talk to her about my love. I can't just pass the friend boundary.
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