Ouch.It.Hurts Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 I know that Intuition is the "gut feeling" you have. But, I've recently just gotten into a Long Distance realtinship with my boyfriend of a year and half. I went to school with him and he graduated. I love him to death, I know deep down inside. But, ever since he left everything is extremely different. I can feel it. but, I know I love him and care about him a lot. We have gone through a lot. he got really sick and during the summer it was hard for us to see each other. It seems a lot of the things I'm telling myself about how everything is different is just my mind not accepting the fact that we are going to be together everyday. And as I keep thinking about that, it also convinces me that "you don't really love him if you think about all of this" and I start thinking about breaking up with him. I don't want to, but part of me also telle sme "That you'll eventually grown to get over it". But I don't want to break up with him. I love him very much. A lot of people I've asked for their opinion believe that I'm just putting a placebo in my head, I'm seeing something that really isn't their because my head. They can see I have something really good. But, that screws me up even more. Why do I need other people telling me I have a good relationship, when I know that myself? I'm so confused and I'm frustrated because I can't tell the difference between my intuition or my thinking. My question is: How can you tell the difference?
Sally00 Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 I think that your intuition is the first feeling you get. Once you start thinking, you get many thoughts at once... and many feelings. I say that intuition is FIRST. It seems like you two really love each other. Don't break up with him. You two have been through thick and thin together. Don't let distance get in the way. Let it make you stronger. Take this as an experience and take it as a reason to focus more in school. After school, you can be together. However long you have left in school (maybe a couple years)........ Just think of it like this: You'll just wait a couple years to spend the rest of your lives together... the i-want-to-spend-everyday-together dream. (if you two plan on getting married someday).
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