Saskovitch Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Hello all Im Sasko! Nice to meet ya all. Hopeing to become a regular on this site and help out Nice girl me Right before i get to help ppl, i need help! Any given is most appricated! Well to cut it short, ive had a "people problem" for as long as I can remember! I bottle up when new people arrive on the scene...and just recently it killd my relationship to my fiancee Stu. He's a born socialite. Im a loner/like to make friends... Making it big with hsi friends didnt go down well and i dunno..... He loves me and i love him....but his friends think im **** ARGH if i had a time machine.....does anyone?
Pink Amulet Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Hello Saskovitch! You are indeed beautiful I am sorry to hear about your relationship... but in all honesty if a man breaks off a relationship for a reason as petty as that... (and it shouldn't matter what his friends think) then he wasn't worth your time, energy and love anyway! Save it for someone more deserving of you sweetie! Can I ask what nationality you are?
Tony T Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 The person you pick to marry needs to accept and understand you exactly like you are. If you're fiance or ex fiance couldn't go with his feelings and not his friends, you were lucky that he decided against the marriage. You don't need to be married to somebody who doesn't love you exactly like you are. Don't ever think you need to change for somebody. If you're a loner, you're a loner. So what's the big deal? There aren't a lot of people worth associating with anyway. You didn't pick your fiance's friends and while you certainly should be cordial to them there is or was no obligation on your part to make them your axxhole buddies as well. Poop on them if they didn't accept you. The sooner you get comfortable with the fact that everybody isn't going to like you, the sooner you will be a much happier person. If you want to change because you dislike yourself, then you know what to do. But don't do things you're uncomfortable with. And don't change yourself for another person. Be who you are happy being!!!
Roo Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 I'm sorry sweetie but if this is the right man for you he'll come around, the person you marry should love you for who you are the way you are, understand that you are not and will never be perfect but think you are perfect for him. That being said if YOU would like to be more Extroverted because YOU want to be... I'm sure we could help you find ways to get more comfortable.
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