piano Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Hey. I know my boyfriend and I should break up, I mean come on, we've been doing the whole breaking up/making up thing for like a year now. He's very blunt when he tells me I'm just temporary until he finds someone else. I guess I sort of feel the same about him, don't really have anyone else. Which is kind of a problem, don't really have anyone else to fall back on. Another problem is well, he's um, very computer savvy. I used to bitch about my bf to a friend of mine (guy) on MSN when we were "broken up". My bf, of course, didn't like that, because my friend kept telling me to dump him. So I stopped talking to said guy. Then me and my bf were "broken up" and this guy was in town so I talked a little more personal (sexual) with this guy. Now, the reason I did that was because my boyfriend confessed to talking sexually with a friend of mine, and I was kind of wanting revenge. Stupid, I know, but I had had a thing for this guy as long as I knew him anyway. SO ANYWAY. My geeky boyfriend installed a keylogger on my computer, and made sure I couldn't find it. He can see any convos I have with anyone, and yeah, I could reformat my computer but I don't know how to freakin' set up my wireless router so I'm nervous about doing that. It's going to be hard to break up but I know it needs to be done. We're not happy, I can't be happy around him. I just feel nothing and neither does he. It's just a whole mess of internet crap and not having anything to do. My friends have moved away so usually the only way I can talk to them is on MSN, and now I don't even have that because of him.
Tony T Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Your boyfriend tells you that you are only temporary...until he finds someone better...haha! Your's is the most romantic relationship I have ever read about on this forum........................
magichands Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 He's very blunt when he tells me I'm just temporary until he finds someone else. You're making me sad. I'm a romantic, so I'm all for sacrificing short-term "comfort" for long-term "happiness". But I think you will find that the comfort isn't that comforting, when you get some perspective. It's probably more stifling than comforting. Hey - where there is a will, there is a way. You have a computer, you have an Internety thingy... put on the Mission Impossible theme and GET TO IT. Good luck!
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