polyglot Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 i met this gal online. 1st time i date her, everything was normal and nothing special but i notice that she is beautiful gal. My impression is she just a normal gal, without anything that outstanding. But after that first date, i decided to see her again, to know more abt her. She looked so much more beautiful and charming . And it was very comfortable feeling to be around with her. I really like her and finally i found that she is smart , knowledgeable and someone with good carier, mature and the way she touched me , so different and gracefully,warm but not bitchy. That nite i wanted so badly to kiss her so i did. She responded , she kissed me with a very passionate kiss as well. After that night i date her again, and almost everyday . And finally , we slept together. The sex was great . And i asked her to be my girl friend, since i really like her. But there are few things that make me not so sure abt her... She is very independent person, and i got the impression she doesnt even need me. she almost never contacted me. Just one short email or short sms. Almost never called me. I am the one who always initiated everything.These 2 days , i didnt hear anything from her. But when we are alone, she is so lovely and treats me so special . i ever asked her what i am to her , she said that i am her boy friend. And i asked her if she will let her friends know me. She said no body knows abt she and i. she ever texted me that she likes me a lot but she hopes that i can give each of us more time to understand each other. And she doesnt want to move too fast. Even she said she wants to cut off the sex. Is she playing a game with me or anything ? she is so good looking , with a model look- many guys after her, with good paying job and i notice she is very popular and has a lot of friends. Is she having a second thought or someone out there? She told me, she is only able to like one person in one time, and she rejected other guys. But i never heard anything from her...the last sms she wrote to me " hows everything going on ? i am thinking of u " but after that i heard nothing from her. what is this about ? sometimes i find she is so innocent and pure but i am not sure either... what do u think ?
Guest Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Trust your guts feeling. It sounds like she is out of your league but she is likes you a lots. Maybe she's just using you to polish up her dating/bed techniques, maybe she has some issues deep down, maybe she is just bored. I dont think she is doing it to hurt you intentionally. There's not much you can do, go along the flow.
polyglot Posted August 29, 2006 Posted August 29, 2006 Trust your guts feeling. It sounds like she is out of your league but she is likes you a lots. Maybe she's just using you to polish up her dating/bed techniques, maybe she has some issues deep down, maybe she is just bored. I dont think she is doing it to hurt you intentionally. There's not much you can do, go along the flow. thank you for your input . Actually, i went overseas since last saturday. And i was hoping that she asked or shown that i am special for her (like she said i am her bf). I only recieved 1 msg these few days. And today i miss her like hell. So i texted her and said that i miss her . She didnt reply at all after few hours. So i called her and i asked her what happened, she just said that she is busy and still at work (when i called her). She asked me abt how my days have been . And thats it. So simple and so cold . after few hours i saw a miscall from her and she texted me again and asked me when would i be back and she said she called me few mins back. I am glad that she called , although it was a merely miscall. I dont know what is she up to...i miss her badly now.any body has idea ? should i call her tomorrow?
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