anto0o Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 me and my girlfriend for 5 years broke up maybe 2 months ago...she said she wanted her space and doesn't see a future with us. Ofcourse i was heart broken and nervous. i know she talked to one of my guy friends alottttttttt but after i confronted him about it he said its nothing and hes only tryin to help me...i believed him so i dropped it. during the break up she went on vacation for 2 weeks. thats when she told me that its over for sure and that she wanted to see other people and jsut do her own thing and be single...i asked her if theres any other guy...she said no and there won't be...i said okay fine...then her brother calls me and says she was talking to some guy on the phone all night about sex and stuff...i was furiousssssssssssssssss...i call her about it and she says it was her girlfriend...i get in contact with her girlfriend and she says yea we were talking...but she said it in a way were she felt guilty saying it..i didn't believe them.i then figure shes talking to my friend...i have nextel so i try to cb her..it doesn't go through so either shes on the phone or no service...i try to cb my "friend" and what do you know ti doesn't go through...so i call my friend(calls always go through) and he picks up mad nervous...saying hh hhello? and i'm like yo kristy is talkign to some guy...and he gets shook like...how do you know???d d d d d d do you know who he is???right away i knew it was him...but i played the nice person...i told him if i find out who it is i'ma kill him...he says..nnnnnnno don't do that....don't get crazzzzzy. i said i don't know..so i pick up my friends nextel and i cb my ex...and what do you know...it goes through!!!so w/e i knew they had something...i had already brough my grl a teddy bear to have sent to miami where she was staying so i couldn't get a refund...so when she gets the teddy bear she calls me says its meens alot to her..i just say yea...w/e. so when she comes back from vacation...she gets in contact with me and wants to start our relationship again...of course like a dick i jump right into it...after 2 days my friend tells me she said yea she had feelings for the kid...i flip...i was being SO nice to her tryin to show her how much i love her and i will chagne everything about me for her..but that night i said **** it...i yell curse and tell her to get into my car caus ei don't wanna mke a scene...i tell her how long did you have feelings for him? and after a lil while she admmited to everything...that she was talking to him that night and she had feelings for him...he even picked her up from the airport...but now the tables have turned...i broke up with her that night...and now shes crying all day long can't eat sleep...and is always calling my friends tryin to get me to talk to her...basically the same shti she did to me, only when she calls i pick up the phone caus ei still love her and want her back...i just odn't know if its the smart thing to do
superconductor Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 You did the right thing by cutting her loose. Move on. Go complete NC on her. If she cries and can't sleep and all the rest, it's none of your concern anymore.
Roo Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Are you still young? like teens? Her behavior sounds pretty immature and I'd take your time think about it and then take your time some more before getting back into a relationship with her.
Author anto0o Posted August 28, 2006 Author Posted August 28, 2006 we are both 21...what gets to me the most is that she attemtped with 1 of my friends...of course that kid is cut...and i feel bad for him if crosses my path...
Roo Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 yeah, sounds like some fairly typical behavior at that age... look if yuou are looking for a serious comitted relationship... move on if you are just young and having fun, do whatever the mood strikes you at the moment! Good luck she sounds like a mess.
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