confusingworldofmine Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 I dated this guy X for a month before he told me to forget him (for no apparent reasons:mad:. At least, he didnt give any) and that it was a mistake that he called me back to patch up after a first break-up. Just received an-email from him. Asking me to be his "friend" again... Well, I think he means gf... At least, that was what I found out he meant after the first break up. After being such a jerk, how can he ask me that? He's leaving me perplexed and I don't know if I should reply to his message. The problem is sometimes I do miss him even though 2 other guys have been dating me meanwhile. Any advice? Anyone? N the 2 other guys???
Mary3 Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Do NOT reply. Do NOT agree to be his friend. Do tell him to kiss off ! ( if you must reply )
Author confusingworldofmine Posted September 11, 2006 Author Posted September 11, 2006 Hey Mary!! Thanks for the advice but it doesnt seem to b wkin . i did ignore him as u advised but he keeps e-mailin n txtin me to tell me he's sorry. Wat shud i do? These e-mails n txtes r makin me thnk abt him, more n more, n like i said before, i do miss him even though i've been dating others. Yet, my heart and my my mind are in conflict and am cpletely lost. Cud u or anyone whoz been in a similar boat b4 help me????
Mary3 Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 Hey Mary!! Thanks for the advice but it doesnt seem to b wkin . i did ignore him as u advised but he keeps e-mailin n txtin me to tell me he's sorry. Wat shud i do? These e-mails n txtes r makin me thnk abt him, more n more, n like i said before, i do miss him even though i've been dating others. Yet, my heart and my my mind are in conflict and am cpletely lost. Cud u or anyone whoz been in a similar boat b4 help me???? I would have to go back and read your original post..
Mary3 Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 I dated this guy X for a month before he told me to forget him (for no apparent reasons:mad:. At least, he didnt give any) and that it was a mistake that he called me back to patch up after a first break-up. Just received an-email from him. Asking me to be his "friend" again... Well, I think he means gf... At least, that was what I found out he meant after the first break up. After being such a jerk, how can he ask me that? He's leaving me perplexed and I don't know if I should reply to his message. The problem is sometimes I do miss him even though 2 other guys have been dating me meanwhile. Any advice? Anyone? N the 2 other guys??? Okay he broke up with you for no apparent reason and now wants you back. Unless you REALLY like this guy and think it will work...( I dont advocate second chances on dumps ) then I would not do this unless he is being really sincere ( even that could be fake ) . Let me know.........
lil_pwinces Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 I think that if you really do like this guy and he is being honest with you, maybe give him another chance..that's my opinion, but..if he just wants/needs you because he has no other girl then i say dont go to him because as soon as he finds another girl that he likes, he will leave you for the other girl. That's my opinion.
loveinlife Posted September 14, 2006 Posted September 14, 2006 I think that if you really do like this guy and he is being honest with you, maybe give him another chance..that's my opinion, but..if he just wants/needs you because he has no other girl then i say dont go to him because as soon as he finds another girl that he likes, he will leave you for the other girl. That's my opinion. lil_pwinces, I believe you are right. If you still have feelings for this guy, a second try won't hurt. Just to test the waters to see what he wants. It'll also give some time to let you see a second opinon of him. Good luck confusingworldofmine.
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