ididntdoit2000 Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Ok Have been dating a wonderful lady from the Seattle. She's in town more than not with her mother. She has a husband out there, the've been seperated for about a year but still live in the same house with the kids. Recently she hasn't been spending much time with me and avoiding some questions. I recently called her mother because i needed to get in touch with her and here's what i found out ... She has been spending most of her time with her step brother J. which also stays with mom. ok no problems yet. But as the conversation went on i found out that those two have dated seriously in the past. I new the names were the same but never thought it was the same person. They went away for the weekend unfortunatly with my blessing because i didn't know what there past was. So my question is this .... How do i handle the situation at hand. I'm at a total loss here. How should i confront her? How do i do it? Or do I just tell her i found out and call it quits? (something that will he very hard to do) Before you answer know this I planned to propose next weekend. I truely fell in love with this lady. Knowing what i know now i wouldn't have let myself. But i did. Anything is a help right now, and thanks. PS more info can be supplied upon request, trying to keep it as short as possible.
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