BUTAFLY Posted August 31, 2006 Posted August 31, 2006 Oh goody............what do i get? You get a standing ovation & these beautiful bouquet of roses! @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- :D
Guest Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 You get a standing ovation & these beautiful bouquet of roses! @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- :D For the last few days H has been flirting hardcore tells me he is NOT closing the option on me now. His cell went tits up so i helped him get one tells me dont tell the OW about this i dont want to get in a fight with her about it...then says to me NOT like we fight making sure i knew this..well I thought to myself hmm if your not fighting about **** why tell me?? I left him a message said hey babe got appt set up for baby blah blah love YA not you well then he tells me at his work ..i dont want to upset you but dont say i love you anymore or call me babe or baby..i said okay no worries..I said can i ask why he did not give me an answer..well later on i over hear him telling one of his co workers that the OW checked his messages and got upset over it. Anyway kids wanted to have lunch with him and me he said sounds good i go to his work to buy oil for the car as its cheap there..he shows up said cant do lunch OW needs the car i said oh okay no prob ..he tells us to come on his breaks. So we do..when he hugs me i go to kiss him on the cheek and he kissed my mouth instead... today was his bday went well with him ..he told me call him when i leave friends house and when i get home to make sure i made it safe..i said okay so i call him to tell him im leaving friends house he was at the bar tell him im leaving in 15 mins he said okay what ya doing blah blah he was a tad drunk..i tell him okay gotta go..he said okay...then calls back...well i get home call him and the MOOD changed with him..I said hey he says wha you need? I said you told me to call you when i got home so we could talk..he says glad you made him home safe but im going...i said you okay you mad at me he says no going to pass out bye..i said okay bye...well kids got upset cause they did not get to say goodnight and he shut off his ringer...so left him a message saying it would be nice if you left your ringer on as if something happened to the kids or the baby you would not know...sorry i interrupted your time by telling you i made it home safe like you ASKED me to..it will not happen again My question is this...here everything was going well then this ****...does the MM do that to make the OW feel good that everything is okay??? or am i just being overly sensitive..he has been flirting alot like i said hugs alot lately bitching to his dad about her ..people tell me alot it wont last people i dont even know..his boss even...I know you all think im crazy to want him back but what can i do??
Bufzookie Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 What? Why...why wuu why???? girl!!!! okay..... I think it is totaly up to you if you want him back or not....but Why? seriously why?/ I can't explain how much I hate this guy by what I have read!! You need to run away from that ........ and don't look back hun!!! Look, I have been in your shoes. My husband (soon to be ex) cheated on me while I was pregnant...... a lot.....and I desided to stay...like an idiot because I thought things would get better. It didn't ..... I felt soooo alone. I felt abandoned by him and really resent him for that!!! Till this day, I will never forgive him. He did nothing but cheat on me some more after our daughter was born. It is a vicious circle and it will never end untill you say it does. Why put this stress on yourself. Why would you want somebody who doesn't want you? He is such a D**K!!! Don't do that to yourself. Now the kids and your unborn baby is involved. Why put them through that too? Oh its terrible. There are so many things you could be focusing on. Let him go....because he obviously chose a different path. Think about how much he has put your family at risk. OMG! What else can I say but..... he doesn't deserve you! Kick his @$$ to the curb!!!
Guest Posted September 12, 2006 Posted September 12, 2006 She needs her head checked as well. How could she do this to her children? My god, they see him as grandpa. Grandpa daddy, that has a real ring to it! WOW...do we live in a perverse world or not?!?!!!??
stillhere Posted September 13, 2006 Posted September 13, 2006 You get a standing ovation & these beautiful bouquet of roses! @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- @}->--- :D Why thank you, now i need to put them in water so they don't wilt! Guest.............sweetie, you need to go see a therapist for your own mental health. You seem to be perfectly ok with the fact that he is with this ow and you are taking it all lying down! If the man i was head over heals in love did this to me, things would not be played out in this manner. He knows you aren't going anywhere, you are chasing him around, this is a huge game to him. If my MM treated me this way, we would not be together. When his W is around, he goes no where near her. As messed up as that is, he respects my feelings and does his best not to hurt me. If you truely want him back (not sure why exactly, but if you do) leave him alone. Let him realize that life with his ow is miserable, and let him come to you. You're making it easy for him. So stop doing that. Don't call him, don't visit him, let him do all the work.
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