Guest Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 There's this girl right and she likes someone else but that guy treats her like ****. I'm her best friend, I know a lot about her and we get along good but i want to date her. How can i get her to like me?
megnog Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 you probably shouldn't f*ck with a good friendship, you probably don't think so, but they are the best kind. anyway i'm not going to try and tell you what you shouldn't do.. i'll try to help you. -tell her she deserves someone better than who she is with like a friend would say. -if you are strong willed, confess that you have a crush on her and you would be so happy if you could take her out one night. -if she says no but is a cool person, things should be okay. -if you can't confess, go out with some friends (with her) and maybe pay for her .. see how she reacts.
sad-in-seattle Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Ok I want to comment on this because my bestfriend of 3 years just confessed he liked me. Has she ever hinted at all she wanted to be more then friends with you? The thing is most girls put guys in the "friend" zone that they usually don't have an interest in dating.. or else she woulda probably tried too. I really don't know your relationship so I can't say for sure, but my friend told me and it ruined everything. It made me feel that our whole friendship was a lie. That everything he did for me wasn't because we were friends, but because he secretly liked me. Realistically it kinda was... Another example is my roommates good friend has done the same with her. I'm still friends with my old bestfriend, but we don't hang out the way we used too and also don't have the same relationship. My roommate on the other hand totally blocked the guy out of her life and said she needed to time away from him. From what you said.. my old bestfriend had said the same thing. He said we get a long really well... we like spending time together.. but the thing he didnt realize the reason for all that is because we were just friends and nothing complicated it. As soon as he said things... it complicated it and now we have a half assed friendship. Who knows though.. maybe she'll like you back.. just be prepared that you could possibly lose a friendship, but maybe risking it for love is worth it?
Sally00 Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 you probably shouldn't f*ck with a good friendship, you probably don't think so, but they are the best kind. anyway i'm not going to try and tell you what you shouldn't do.. i'll try to help you. -tell her she deserves someone better than who she is with like a friend would say. -if you are strong willed, confess that you have a crush on her and you would be so happy if you could take her out one night. -if she says no but is a cool person, things should be okay. -if you can't confess, go out with some friends (with her) and maybe pay for her .. see how she reacts. I don't agree with f*cking up a good friendship. I've been good friends with my boyfriend for more than a year... he's always liked me too. But I didn't like him that way... until one day, he asked to hang out with me. That day was exactly 7 months ago. And we're very very happy. But I do agree with the bulleted information.
sad-in-seattle Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 I think there is a difference between friends and bestfriends though. If I was friends with a guy.. and I kinda dug on him.. and then he asked me out that's cool. But if he is my BEST friend... that's much different then someone you got along with for a while and they ask you on a date...
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