pinkFirm Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 When your BF says "I Love You" Does he really meant it or does he just say it bc you want him to hear him say it? Ok guys, will you ever tell your GF I love you out of pitty or bc you really mean it? :love:
stoopid_guy Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Don't even think about what he says. I say "I love you" to our dogs (and mean it.) Think about how he treats you. Is he considerate? Is he gentle? Is he affectionate? Do you laugh together? Are you both happier when the other is around?
megnog Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Unfortunately, you can never tell. Some guys will say I love you when they don't mean it. Go with stoopid guys advice, he can say I love you all he wants.. but it will show if he means it. Actions speak louder than words. You will never be able to tell if someone means what they say, but you can have a good hunch if you can read their actions.
Author pinkFirm Posted August 27, 2006 Author Posted August 27, 2006 you are so right. how come i never thought of that guys. i guess most girls wear their heart on their sleeve.
Sally00 Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Oh man. My boyfriend really means it when he says it. He's told me he's meant it for the 15+ months we were friends. (Our circle of friends always say "I love you" to each other . When we were going out, we talked about when we first said it to each other... how before, I said it as just friends... he said he's always meant it as more than that.) We've been dating for exactly 7 months (today!). In fact, I just got back from seeing him. I was closing the car door when he dropped me off at my place and he was saying, "I love you!" I felt bad for closing the door right when he said it, but he said it right when I closed it! LoL. But I told him I loved him too. No worries. Question: Are you asking us this because you think your boyfriend says "I love you" out of pity? I HOPE NOT! Cuz that's just sad.
Author pinkFirm Posted August 27, 2006 Author Posted August 27, 2006 hahaa! Thats funny. The thing is that we tell eachother "i love you" almost everyday. But sometimes i stop and think "Wow, thats way to much" maybe he doesnt mean it and he is just used to telling me back. But yeah i think he does because like the other comments about that actions tell it all. And now that i think back on how he treats me, uhmm yeah then he really does. Thx guys!
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