NightsEcho Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 Hey all my memebrs of LS, Its been quite awhile since i posted on this website. I've still checked from time to time on how people are doing. Neeed some advice so i'm gonna keep this short and sweet. Background: Dated girl for 3 1/2 years, she left for someone else and moved across the country. Periods of NC often interupted by a quick hello here and there. Basically this girl taught me what it was like to have my heart broken....a lesson learned. If you need more details feel free to check previous posts. In Feb or March, I told her to never contact me again...Needed to heal. Well today, about 1 year and 1/2 since we broke up, we talked. She MSN'd me out of the blue...and while initally my heart rate spiked....i calmly realized it was a skeleton in my closet I must face. I responded....I didnt wait a week or anything, right there. We talked for like 20 minutes about random stuff....it felt okay to talk, not that I need a deep friendship, but was good to talk. Now its been a year and a half, and while her tone has shifted from hostile, to much nicer, I still worry. I have carried a flame for this girl for a long time, and I'm not sure if NC has Jaded me or if I'm a sucker for punishment. I told her it was nice to hear from her...(cause it was) but at the same time i'm terrified to get hurt. SO any LS's who can bestow some wisdom it would be very much appriciated.. Best regards NE
pioneer Posted August 30, 2006 Posted August 30, 2006 im sort of in the same situation, only i did the contacting. Souds like ur in a better position than me. Maybe you should keep on talking to her!
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