Author johan Posted August 27, 2006 Author Posted August 27, 2006 Depends on the woman. I would not want to screw around with a lazy slob. Too lazy to pick his dirty socks off the floor then probably too lazy in general for me. I like Monk type men.... those little sock drawer things that divide each pair of socks :bunny: To me it shows that he has a sense of pride about his home, he is organized, and not lazy. He has his act together in general. Now if he has no food in his cabinet or frig...... minus the squeeze bottle of mustard and just beer in there..... tells me he is really way too busy running around town and being a man whore :lmao: out dated frig items and moldy experimental food are a sign of procrastination and avoidance too! and too many pictures of family members...... RUN!!! Too many pics of himself...... run really really fast frig magnets.... major turn off unless it is just one that is in use to hold a reminder of something that needs immediate attention....or like concert tickets or something. HEY!! Good news! Sounds like I'm the right guy for you!
a4a Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 HEY!! Good news! Sounds like I'm the right guy for you! Do you have a sock divider organiser? :love: Hey here is a tip....... for the fuzzy wuzzy sweet girls you wanna fornicate with: get a nice pic of a golden retriever put that in a prominant place where they will see it and ask...... like on the frig.... tell her it was your dog that past away 2 years ago and you keep the pic just because you like to remember him. awe.... how sweet or get yourself some paper and make one of those turkey hand outlines or draw a stupid ass house and tree with a stick figure person and a dumbass stick dog. stick that on your frig and put to my uncle Johan from little bobby or suzy or some shyte...... then talk about how friggin cute the made up kid is. She will say "AWE that is so sweet I need to blow you" :lmao: oh good soap in the bathroom.... generic crap around the house shows you are a loser...... chicks don't want thrifty until they bag you and marry you.
Vertex Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 I think a little mess can be a good thing. But only a little -- if it's too clean, guests are usually too paranoid about messing something up. A little mess is a bit more inviting because you can relax and not worry. But if it's too messy then the guests go right back to being uncomfortable.
SarahRose Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 If he has more hair products than you do! Run! Neatfreaks gives me the heebie jeebies. Makes me think of some slasher horror movie where the guy flips out. Someone moves one of his neatly arranged pen and he goes postal. It also gives the impression they care more about their material things than they do about people.
HokeyReligions Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 I love a clean house. Let me give you my address - my house is a mess. Dog hair doesn't bother you does it? I can cook and know lots of single women.
brightskies Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Are you kidding me?! A combination clean and organized guy is awesome! Cluttered or somewhat messy is ok, but the guy's place has to be c-l-e-a-n. Especially the bathroom and the kitchen. Otherwise, it's a huge turn-off. Once, I visited a date's place --- everything felt dusty and dirty and the entire place smelled like really filthy cat litter. He had 4 cats and used really bad quality litter or probably didn't clean the box very well. You literally wanted to gag and die when the door opened and the smell hit you. It was terrible and I never went back. Luckily my current bf is great at organizing. Well, he's a bit lax with cleaning. I'm good with cleaning but am not so organized, so we balance each other out when we visit each other.
alphamale Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Once, I visited a date's place --- everything felt dusty and dirty and the entire place smelled like really filthy cat litter. He had 4 cats and used really bad quality litter or probably didn't clean the box very well. You literally wanted to gag and die when the door opened and the smell hit you. It was terrible and I never went back. OMG, this reminds me of this date I went on with this chick. We had a fun date and she was totally into me. So we went back to her crib. PHEW! Man it stunk. She had like 4 cats and the apt reeked of cat urine. To top it off she smoked so the whole apt smelled like an ashtray also. It was enough to make my erection go limp. Nasty! So I had a drink, watch TV for a bit and then split. Never called her again.
Pink Amulet Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Do these people not smell their own house?!?! I realise for nutty old women and strange young men (think John) the whole cats running up curtain, and pissing on the carpet thing can compliment their stereotypes... ...but why are these (I would assume) seemingly normal people not clean up after their pets!?
brightskies Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Alpha, You didn't tell her why you weren't interested anymore either? Her next date must've suffered too! This guy was a supposedly normal, young person. Looking back, maybe I should've said something, so at least he would know and maybe do something about it for his own sake. But how do you approach the subject diplomatically?
Outcast Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Do these people not smell their own house?!?! Olfactory fatigue. After a while, you don't smell something that's always around. You need to go away for a while and come back or ask friends to judge how your place smells.
blind_otter Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Yeah, that's why I posted this thread. But I want to hear what women have to say. I'm sure some of the more experienced ones have some stories to tell. Like I said, I can always throw a little dirty laundry around before I bring someone over. It'll bug me though... In college I dated this cuban guy who was in law school. I was only 18 at the time, and he was much older, but I went over to his apartment to study once, after the first few initial dates. It was almost freakishly neat. We fooled around a little, then he goes into the kitchen to get a beer and I wander around looking through his stuff, kind of scared to move anything. I open up his closet and see a line of multicolored bikini briefs hanging on those hangars with clips on them. He walks in, sees me dubiously eyeing the hanging rainbow colored thongs and bikinis. "I don't like the fold in the crotches" he says, casually. I never did go out with him again, and for a while my answering machine message said "Hello! I don't like the fold in my crotches! Leave a message." It seemed funnier 8 years ago. Ah, the late 90s....
Pink Amulet Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 I never did go out with him again, and for a while my answering machine message said "Hello! I don't like the fold in my crotches! Leave a message." Hahahaha :lmao: Classic!
Walk Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 The one thing that really impressed me the first time I went to my bf's house was how neat everything was. It wasn't spotlessly neat, but tidy. Everything had a place for it, nothing was strewn or scattered. He made the bed every day. Cleaned the toilet enough to ensure no crusties were stuck to it. Plates and dishes were cleaned after every meal. There was some dust, but nothing.. nasty. There's a nice comfortable line between neat freak and lax. Where everything is tidy, but not so spotess you feel like you entered Mrs. Cleavers home. And a man who makes his bed??? Priceless. I'd be happy to help mess it up as long as I'm not the only one cleaning up afterward. I hated my ex's house though. ICK :sick: I wouldn't go over there. Of course, stupid me.. he moved in with me later, and suddenly my house looked like his old place. DISGUSTING!@
norajane Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Clean bathroom and kitchen are great. Neat/tidy is fine. A little clutter of books and papers or whatnot here and there is when I'm most comfortable. I'd like his place to look like living, breathing people are actually welcome and not a disturbance of his pristine environment. Spotless makes me uncomfortable. It would make me feel like I couldn't relax there because he'd freak out if I left a glass on the table, or mussed up a towel when I dried my hands in the bathroom, or - god forbid - dropped a few long strands after combing my hair. I'd be afraid that messing up the sheets might provoke an anxiety attack! Neat freaks do tend to be control freaks a lot of the time, too, I think.
a4a Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 - dropped a few long strands after combing my hair. . Cant you pick up your hair...... I mean if you know it happens can't you just clean up after yourself? I am asking because: My H leaves a Toto in the shower drain..... grrrrrr that grosses me out Hair laying about is nasty stuff..... almost as nasty as toe nail clippings..... :lmao: He did not used to do this but has gotten lazy since we married. I miss Mr. Neat Freak!!
alphamale Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Cant you pick up your hair...... I mean if you know it happens can't you just clean up after yourself? A4A...I have so much hair on my bathroom floor that I could fashion a crude rug with it... I don't mind housework in general. But I hate anything to do with floors, such as vacuuming, mopping, etc....
norajane Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 Cant you pick up your hair...... I mean if you know it happens can't you just clean up after yourself? I am asking because: My H leaves a Toto in the shower drain..... grrrrrr that grosses me out Hair laying about is nasty stuff..... almost as nasty as toe nail clippings..... :lmao: He did not used to do this but has gotten lazy since we married. I miss Mr. Neat Freak!! I can, and often I do (like after a shower)...however, my point is I'd rather be with someone who doesn't care so much if I don't. If he freaks out because there are strands on his pillows, or if I was in such a rush to get to the naked play time that I didn't sweep the bathroom first , we're not going to be a good match.
a4a Posted August 28, 2006 Posted August 28, 2006 A4A...I have so much hair on my bathroom floor that I could fashion a crude rug with it... I don't mind housework in general. But I hate anything to do with floors, such as vacuuming, mopping, etc.... well I hate it too Alpha and that is why it pisses me off when there is hair left everywhere. And I never mop..... I get on my hands and knees ( ) with a bucket and rag...... ok I admit too that I have a collection of toothbrushes to use on the baseboards. I have been slacking because I am on my own with this apparently....so on strike ..... demonking. what was the line in that scary movie the Sixth Sense? I SEE DUST BUNNIES :lmao:
Guest Posted September 4, 2006 Posted September 4, 2006 Women like men who are clean not pigs, I thought about leaving my husband because his such a pig!! I Cant stand a messy man. I work I dont have time to constanly clean up after him. His a pig!! Any woman should be happy to have a man like that.
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