Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 I met this girl on MySpace about three months ago. We sent messages back forth for about a week until she gave me her phone number. We had a couple of long phone conversations and then I asked her out. It seemed like things were going great. Then after our date it seemed like she totally lost interest. At the end of our first date she told me to call her that weekend. I did, and I got her voicemail. She didn't call me back. We made plans to get together again but something came up at the last minute and I had to cancel. The next time we were going to hang out she had something come up and had to cancel. Basically in the last three months we have seen each other a total of three times. The biggest problem I have with this situation is the phone calls. It seems like I call her about twice as much as she calls me. I have since stopped however. Plus, she'll tell me "I'll call you tomorrow" or "I'll call you (insert day) when you get off work". And she never does. I'm trying not to get too frustrated at this because, well, she has her own crap to deal with right now. She was fired from her job a couple of months ago and has been trying, with no luck, to find a new one and I think she's very down about it. I don't want to add to her frustrations. BUT, it's more than a little annoying when someone says they'll call and they don't. Should I mention something to her about it? I'm sure someone, or everyone, will say "Forget about her" or whatever, but I don't really want to do that just yet. I mean, she did tell me at the beginning that she hasn't dated anyone in a few years and that love takes time, but I don't know.... Should I take her phone behavior as a sign of non-interest? Thanks.
monkey00 Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 No doubt a flake. move on and forget about contacting her or answering her phone calls for that matter
whichwayisup Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 She's giving you the brush off nicely. And the more you call and she says she'll call you and doesn't means she's not interested and backing off from you. If you want to see how she really feels about you, stop calling her and emailing her. If in 2 weeks you've not heard from her, there's your answer.
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