Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 how do u get rid of bad tension thats still happeneing even tho a fight was over a week ago? saying sorry wont work, nothing will, she just ignores me at all times, and says everythings fine, idk what i am supposed to do. ilove this girl and she loves me (or so she says), and i dont wanna lsoe her, but things are jsut getting worse.
destination_unknown Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Think we may need a little more history on this one guest. Depends what the fight was over, is it a recurring issue, how was the conflict handled etc.
superconductor Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 You have to do some reseach on wimmenspeak. It's a whole differenet language. For instance, "fine" is wimmenspeak for "I'm really pissed off and you have to guess why." Another example is, "I'll be ready in 5 minutes" which actually means, "Take off your shoes, relax, turn on the game. This will be a while." Lastly, "Do I look fat in these pants?" is wimmenspeak for, "I feel fat, but don't you DARE say anything about it!!" Trust me on this. Voice of experience.
Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Think we may need a little more history on this one guest. Depends what the fight was over, is it a recurring issue, how was the conflict handled etc. well we have gotten into a couple of fights and the last one was big becasue i got kind of possesive, and got mad becasue she went out wiht this guy whos shes been friedns witrh for years( i didnt know that at the time) and i made a big deal out of it and i shoulodnt of. now shes saying that she doesnt wanna be with me if we are gonna keep on arguing,. and i know we wont argue anymore because i can erally control that stuff i fi itry. i just needed a scare like injust got, just not one this huge. now shes gonna leave me becuase she thinks i cant go without arguing and i know i can. i want one more chance but idk if shes willing to give it to me. and theres so much tension, shes not happy when shes wiht me, and she wont talk about whats wrong. idk what to do, but onw is worse than ever. please, any advice on something big i couold do. im only 17 but thats got nothing to do wiht it.
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