Hungryhorse Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Hi there, bit concerned and would appreciate any advice, would like to know if anyone had ever dated a guy (or girl) who seemed obsessed with going out all the time? We met on a blind date a few weeks ago, it could be just he is keen to impress me but I have begun to think maybe he is just enjoying more having an accessory to go to films/plays etc etc with than go on his own. So far I have seen him 5 times and 2 of these have been to see films at the cinema (most of them I am not really interested in), plus one evening we watched a DVD, also a film. Last week he got out about half a dozen programmes to arty events and kept saying this one and that one was good, I just appeared a bit vague as didn't want to commit myself. He invited me to a comedy club the other week by text and added "it costs £5"! which slightly surprised me as it was such a small amount so therefore made an excuse. As its early days was just wondering if I could say anything that would keep his cinema/film/going out addiction at bay. The strange thing is I can't tell if he is that keen or not, he hasn't given me any compliments though he has put his arm round me and held my hand. The other week I was at his house talking about something and almost mid track he disappeared to put a film on. I don't know just what is going on. He has just emailed me about going to another film, I don't really know what to politely email back to say. Feel seeing films at the cinema isn't really getting to know someone and don't want to spend 2 or more hours watching a film if he isn't really interested in me as a possible girlfriend. Could someone tell me something I could say to very politely get out of going to films, I don't want to hurt his feelings. Really would appreciate advice, thank you for your help.
Pink Amulet Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Maybe be likes you, maybe he doesn't... he seems a tad bit strange. I think you could do better. I wouldn't waste another second in a cinema with this guy. You could be missing out on a guy who actually will want to speak with you, and *pay for you*, compliment you, and not make you questions where you stand!
sad-in-seattle Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Why don't YOU suggest doing something other then watching a movie? =)
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