univ331 Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 So one of my good friends dated a girl for a little more than a year, and they broke up about 2 years ago. Recently his ex-girlfriend has been coming on to me, and we have messed around a couple times after long nights of partying. At first I thought it was a huge mistake, but now I think I might be liking her. I feel guilty for what I've done, and I don't want to lose a great friend. I also dont want to lose a potentially good relationship with her. What's the best move? I don't know if he is over her though, which makes this even harder.
silentcharon Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Just ask your buddy straight up. Ask if he is over her, explain that you have some feelings for her. He will appreciate your honesty. If he says he is over her, ask him how he would feel if you pursued a relationship with her. If he says that he'd be ok with it, by all the means, go ahead. If not, you may have to choose between him or her. Personally, I'd choose your buddy over his ex. Good luck!
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