lo_lo Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 ok..... me and my boyfriend live in the same house but were not "living together" if u know what i mean......LOL his sister is my best friend, and her family let me stay with them due to many family problems at my house. ok well lately he gets mad at me because i dont want to have sex with him in the house. And i'm too scared to do anything because of his parents. I mean we did it once or twice but then it got a little risky because his mom would wake up in the middle of the night to check and see if i was in bed already. I'm not sure what to do? and lately his been moody with me. And i even told him that i can't be in his room so late because eventually me and him will get in trouble. ( it sounds a bit stupid but really i wouldnt want to risk anything and get kicked out or something) But i mean i don't understand? why can't he just understand instead of being a jerk?? well i don't know!! I want to have sex but under these circumstances i can't. I get too scared and so paranoid. am i making a big deal out of it? or am i right about respecting his parents house?? (well of course) but is there another way and plus hes too cheap to go to a hotel LOL........... i don't know what do u guys think.......LOL......... and just like any horny guy he tries to do anything to convince me but i still say no......and now hes acting weird............is not having sex getting in the way?? i don't know?? HELP.......LOL....... >_<
britchick Posted August 26, 2006 Posted August 26, 2006 I think it's quite understandable that you don't want to show any disrespect to his parents, I would have thought that this would concern him too. How old are you two? Has he got a car? ;-)
Sally00 Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 sex DOES complicate things... i know this not from experience (because i'm waiting till marriage to have sex), but from others' experiences. lol. i've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months (today!) and we are perfectly happy not having sex. he knows i want to wait and respects me for that. i can totally understand where you are coming from about being too paranoid to have sex. he needs to respect you for that. i would think HE would be the one to be paranoid. he SHOULD be!!!
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