heartbrokenwifeof2 Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Now that i caught him cheating he says its over. How do I forgive or at least forget and go on knowing he is going to do it again. I am really trying, but dont know if I want to stay around anymore. All that consumes me is their relationship I cant stop thinking about it. Jeez I need a life!!!
HeartSprinkles Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 You don't need a life...you need to leave his dumbass and move on! Once a cheater is always a cheater!
tearful_soul22 Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 When infidelity enters a relationship..chaos is sure to follow! So, you have to ask yourself what is tolerable and acceptable to you? What boundaries should be established? It is possible for a relationship like yours to recover and even flourish after his adulterous act, but..are you willing to commit to it and work hard on it? Forgiving is easy....forgetting is very hard and so i guess the decision rest entirely on you. Once that trust is broken..it is hard to regain it back even with so many rationalizations his cheating will always be an unbearable memory for you. I'm sorry you have to go through this..take care of yourself and my best to you!
SadGreenEyes Posted August 27, 2006 Posted August 27, 2006 I for one would never forgive a cheater. I agree with teh other post, once a cheater, always a cheater, but I got yelled at once here on another post for stating that same exact thing. Me, personally, would never forgive, trust is destroyed and the sooner I leave Dodge, the better! Good Luck! SGE
SadGreenEyes Posted September 11, 2006 Posted September 11, 2006 Does the word hypocrite ring a bell? Im referring to myself by the way. I just posted a new thread about my relationship being over and I caught him cheating however never being in this situation before and not realizing how much I love this man, a part of me actually wants to work things out with him. We werent married and have no kids, so theres no strings. Its just something inside..i can only try to describe it as unconditional love but yes, since I found out last week it is constantly on my mind, AND I knew they speak all the time, in fact he takes her calls in front of me. You need a life? Girlfriend..I need a labotomy
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