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Am I being a hater...or is it normal to feel this way?


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Here’s the deal…a few years ago I dated this one girl, not for long but it was the summer fling thing. We broke up but stayed friends after the summer. We’ve stayed in touch for the past few years, and at the beginning of this summer she started calling me more and more, and we were hanging together more and more. I started wondering to myself if something could come up between her and I again possibly. Then another friend meets up with her and they start seeing each other…at first I was like, no big deal, he’s a good guy and I wish the both of them the best. Then over the next few weeks, I started to think that she should have been mine. I mean we weren’t serious but I was thinking I had a chance…

 

So I need to know, am I being a player hater, or just reacting as any normal guy would? Again don’t get me wrong, he’s a great guy and she’s a great girl and the 3 of us can hang out together with no animosity. But again, sometimes when I see them together and I start thinking.

 

OK, so there you go, who wants to chime in on this one?

 

H777

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You don`t know what you got until it`s gone.

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Your not hatin' as long as you don't do anything to jeopardize their relationship. Your a normal human being - you have feelings.. seems like you thought she was a good gal. I would just say let it go and let them be happy.. someone will come along for you.

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Your mistake was being friends with her after breaking up. Bad move.

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