goqueene Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 I am woman who is involved with a very Christian oriented man who is very opposed to homosexuals, he is always talking down about them and such. When my friend and I went to see Brokeback Mountain he flipped out. He could not believe we were going to see the "gay" movie. I actually really appreciated it. Anyways, last weekend to cap off my suspicions, I found these E-mails from last september and we have been together since a year ago february, I found these e-mails of a conversation with a man who was asking if my boyfriend was hot. I guess my boyfriend was looking in to moving in with this fellow for an apartment space--- weird-- then I found pictures of my boyfriends privates and him masturbating sent to this guy! I was horrified! I confronted my BF and he was like I was just messing around with the guy it was nothing.... WOW what to I think?! First of all is this being unfaithful to our relationship, we were together when this happened? Also, is he gay? Should i leave this relationship before a become even more involved?
riobikini Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 It sounds as if he has a fascination focusing on the lifestyles of gay men (and there could be many reasons for that not yet known to you -and which may lie hidden even to him -purposely or not- in his past). For him, making sport of gay men is a way of having some degree of control over perhaps, fear related to inadequate or misinformation regarding the lifestyle, and his unanswered questions about his own sexuality. Then, of course, on the other hand, he could also simply be an ass who enjoys being cruel. -Rio
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