skate Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 here's my story http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t93593/ Since then he left for 2 weeks for work, but came by & fixing my stuff at my place and called me several times during the day and even asked if we see each other for a bit before he left the next day. Nothing happened much that time we saw each other b/c he had to pick up something at the mall and wanted me to be there to help him (like i used to). so basically we shopped around and talked casually. When he left he gave me a hug and later text msged me he had fun. he had said he would email me when he was away but i guess it was just talk cuz he never did. A year ago he would do the same thing, asking if he could call me next week and never doing it...so i thought that it was clear it was over..but then eventually down the line he asked to get back w/ me! Anyways, he ended up coming back from his trip a few days later which explained why he didn't call me as soon as he return which was the least i expected from him. So he calls to see how i was doing i guess and brought me back a gift. Why would he do that? doesn't that mean he still thought about me while he was away? Even though he met so many girls while away (we've always been open about this kind of stuff so he is not trying to make me jealous) he still thought about me at least for one day to get me a gift. He said it woudl be nice to come by to give it to me and insisted on buying a part for my computer that needed replacement. He then said he would call me the next day. He will stop by today for a short while, as we both have something to do after. I don't know what to think and whether he is really still interested and just taking it slow or just sees me as a good friend and still wants to find someone else to date. His actions show something sometimes, but when he doesn't call me or respond to me as someone who is interested would enough i get confused. Why woudl he call me so many times the day before he leaves but then sometimes seem so uninterested and not contact me all day? When he did call me the next day, i kinda brushed him off cuz i forgot that i had something to do and we never officially said he would come over that day. I felt bad for being rude and tried to contact him again later but he never replied. I felt horrible. Why would he not even respond to arrange a time for me to even pick up the items like i wanted? anywyas, weak ol me contacted him the next day, bored outta my mind asked if he would like to go for lunch and if i could just pick up the stuff. He didn't have time, but still insisted he come and fix it for me. It's those little things that make me think he is not interested. like saying it will only take 15 mins and he could come by quick when i didn't want him to come that day too late. I'm looking for him to ask to actually spend some time w/ me. He asked once about going for lunch or something, but never followed thru. I'm so stupid for always initiating. It reminds me of when we first started dating b/c he was very bad at initiating meetings or spending time together. I could never figure out if he was really interested in me or just dating for fun. i hurt like hell over every little action he does. It hurts b/c even though things don't seem bad b/w us it ends w/ me still not knowing if he is interested in me. I feel like i am back to square one, except this time i know that there is something in his mind that could be holding him back enough that will cause him to lose his love for me. Please....does anyone have any comments on this?
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