Rawk Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 Hi everyone... i've got a problem.. i have a bf who really cares about me: i can't count the number of presents, kisses and hugs he gives me. He's such a romantic and a smart person. But, there's a problem. He REALLY likes sex, like REALLY. Now, I, on the other hand, just started with this whole "sexual being" crap, even though i might seem old for it (i'm 19), and he was my first one, so the bond that i have with him is very strong. The only problem is - he has 8 years of experience behind him. Do you know how i feel when we make love? Like i don't know anything, that i'm in kindergarten compared to him... and for my persona, that doesn't work. I was always the one who knew more than the other person - and now it's the opposite... i am also quite disgussed with him losing his virginity at the beginning of his teenage years. So, i am confused. I don't know if i am bad in bed (my horoscope says otherwise ), and i don't have that confidence, and therefore, i don't have that drive that he has. For me, i'd rather hug and kiss for hours than feel like crap for 30 minutes. I want to work through this, because i really do care about him. And I guess there must be something that is holding him to me, even though i might not be the best in bed.... btw, we are dating for 5 months... haven't said the L word yet.... Any similar experiences/helpful tips, i would really appreaciate! Thanks guys!!
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