Guest Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 Hi all..Ok i need some help. i've kind of been started somethign up with this guy. kind of a long distance thing. he initiated a phone friendship and eventually we got intimate etc (and yes eventually had sex after talkign for some 3 months). gradually since then he's doign the classic guy thing of distancing himself like calling erratically. we used to chat everyday sometimes twice a day or more. then since last month we'd chat online for a few mins everyday and phonecalls happened every other day. lately though we sometimes don't connect for 2-3 days at a time. i know he does care for me though i'm sure he's in the whole space of discounting it and going the whole we're just friends and having fun route. i do care for him, and would like to deepen the association but i also don't want to rush anything. just keep the interest alive and build a real bond. only i sometimes don't know how to express what i want or need. i havent spoken to him for a couple of days and i know that he will be calling at some point in the next few days. i want us to speak more regulary and for him to not take me for granted, only i dont know how to behave when i speak to him next. my question is, do i act disinterested and blase abouthim calling or do i react normally (which is being friendly and souding happy to hear from him and not complaining about the infrequency of his calls) please advise. i know he's a nice guy, just a little immature and in typical guy fashion, not very perceptive or aware of what's goign on outside his immediate periphery.
Guest Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 I'd say don't sound to friendly...why let him get too comfortable.
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