happygirl2006 Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. All was fine to start with, but now he has decided he no longer wants to have sex with me and has cut down the amount of time he spends with me. I have tried to challenge him about it, but he says he wants our relationship to continue. He is talking about us going away together soon. I am very confused and his behaviour is having an adverse effect on my self esteem. I do really like him, but I am very unhappy with the situation. I don't know what I should do.
lovestrucksweetie Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 What I would do is go away with him and see what happens from there! Because you never know maybe he's planning something special for you!
Walk Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 How long has it been since he's cut out sex and limited his contact with you? And are there set plans of going away together soon, or just talk? Peronally, I'd remind him that sex and communication are important to a relationship. And that you aren't getting either from him. He's telling you everything is fine, but his actions are saying things aren't good. Really depends on what other things are going on in his life right now, and how long this has been going on. Take a bigger look at the relationship and see if there are outside factors that are causing him to wall up. Job, money, family, etc?
Guest.Girl Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 Not all men have a high sex drive. Maybe your M is at the low end and he wants a break from sex. (he's tired) He really loves you and is a good man.
Recommended Posts