GBD Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 [COLOR=black]I have been seeing a girl for 2 dates now and we still have not kissed. Both dates went really well, and I was quite happy with my decision not kiss her after the first date. But after the 2nd I really wanted to, and felt it was the right thing to do, when I went to kiss her she just kissed me on the cheek. Despite what has happened she is still happy to come out with me on a 3rd date. What should I do? She always very happy to spend the evening with me, we get on great and I have made it clear that I fancy her. But she has never really said or done anything to encourage me to take things further. I don't want to keep seeing someone who peharaps just wants to be friends and just has not got the heart to break it to me.[/COLOR]
Adunaphel Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 She always very happy to spend the evening with me, we get on great and I have made it clear that I fancy her. But she has never really said or done anything to encourage me to take things further. Did she say *anything* to discourage you? Also, did your dates look clearly like real dates, or were they not much different than two friends of the opposite sex hanging out together? Good luck with your third date. I hope she will have made her mind up at the end of it.
Yoohoo Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 I'd give it one last shot, but if you don't passionately kiss her at the very least during this date, she'll probably never kiss you, i.e. you'll be in the "friend zone" forever.
rina_r Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 Are you sure you let her know you want to date her as more than a friend? I had a case like this: we went out several times and I always thought he only wanted friendship (and i did not want more than that). But then he started sending flowers to work and I got his message. I had to go and tell him that he needed to pursue someone else. Communication is the key.
gfto Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 [COLOR=black] when I went to kiss her she just kissed me on the cheek. she isn't interested. flush her number and move on to the next girl.
pseudofemme Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 How old is she, and has she had many boyfriends before? It's possible she was nervous. Especially if she isn't very experienced with relationships. With my first boyfriend, he asked for a kiss and I pecked him on the cheek, because I was scared and didn't know what to do On date #3, make sure she knows this is a DATE and not just a friend thing... perhaps show up with flowers, or take her somewhere romantic. If you still haven't kissed by the end of the night, then yeah, she's probably just interested in you as a friend.
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