LittleNikki20 Posted August 23, 2006 Posted August 23, 2006 i asked my best friedn to go out this saturday she said yeah sure sounds great, we have been friends for about 9 yrs, i also asked our other friend to come and she also agreed. I told my best friend she was coming, she turns around and says well im not going if she goes. I said why? She said last tiem i saw her she gave me funny looks. Bearing in mind the girl shes talking about doesnt have a bad bone in her body and i knew she was talking crap! I said when she said last time we saw her (this was months ago) I said are you sure because she asked me to invite you this weekend. (I was already thinking we are all 21 not 10yrs old - funny looks!!!????) She said well you can tell her that im not coming becuase of the way she was last time. i told her that if she has a problem with her she needs to tell her herself. So she did, she sent her some pretty snotty texts, which my friend then text me saying whats going on im getting these nasty messages of her and iv dont nothing wrong. I felt terrible. Totally stuck in the middle. I told my best friend i dont want to be in the middle of all this, she was treating it like a game saying have you heard anything yet? She got real snotty with me saying how have i put you in the middle i went to her directly. Im just really upset that she has to eb so petty and to put this between us all. I care for both of them and im not going to defend the other but now my best friend feels im letting her down because i wont take sides. Any suggestions? Sorry i rambled back and forth!!!
directx Posted August 24, 2006 Posted August 24, 2006 I've been in the middle all the time. Here is what I do: Whenever I get resistence about someone not going out due to certain conditions, I simply drop ALL plans with everyone and stay home and do something I enjoy. When your jealous friend (she is jealous) says why you staying home, simply say 'I'm not pleasing anyone so I am pleasing myself.' When your nice friend asks, tell her so and so didn't like the fact that you were coming, and repeat the above.
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