Guest Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 i need help. im 17 and i was an ******* to my girlfriend. she was hanging out with this guy i didnt know alone and i got all pissed off, and had NO REASON AT ALL to do so. and we got into an argument. the biggest one we have had. and she was completely riht, and i was completely wrong. but now, i was talking to her a few hours ago, and she was jsut about ready to break up with me, but i somehow managed to get it to the point where she was gonna give me anothe chance without begging or sounding like too much of a baby. she says she still loves me but the problem is that school is starting next week. and we both work and have school and we have both got alot of stuff that are just gonna try and tear us apart. we will hardly be bale to see eachother and are not in any of the same classes. but i need to make this up to her. im a nice guy, and i dont know what to do. im always nice but we sometimes get into tiny stupid arguments that are almost ALWAYS my fault, ciz screw up so often. so what can i do to get her to stay with me. i knwo she still loves me and she does not wanna break up with me for sure, but if shcools coming up, idk, its gonna push her farther away. i need to do something to make it up to her. something really sweet, but idk what to do please help me!! i know she still loves me but idk what to do to make it last besides to stop being a jackass, which i kno i can do after what happened the other day. oh and i will almost never be able to see her on weekends, cuz of all this stuff. maybe once a week if im incredibely lucky. but its ont worht losing her over.l
newbby Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 it sounds as though you are insecure. perhaps the nice guy thing is a symptom as much as the possessive thing, so just be cool as much as you can. she has already forgiven you, you dont have to go overboard or you will put her off. try to be a bit more secure in yourself and you wont feel so scared of losing her.
ZICKAR Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 it sounds as though you are insecure. perhaps the nice guy thing is a symptom as much as the possessive thing, so just be cool as much as you can. she has already forgiven you, you dont have to go overboard or you will put her off. try to be a bit more secure in yourself and you wont feel so scared of losing her. I couldn't agree more ... It is better to spend a little time apart now without actually breaking up or telling her that you need this time apart ... If you are sure everything is OK again try stop calling her for a couple of days
Guest Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 it sounds as though you are insecure. perhaps the nice guy thing is a symptom as much as the possessive thing, so just be cool as much as you can. she has already forgiven you, you dont have to go overboard or you will put her off. try to be a bit more secure in yourself and you wont feel so scared of losing her. i am NEVER possesive like thatt, i dont know what got into me, and i feel terrible and she has no idea how bad i feel for how i acted. she says shes allright with stuff alot but usually isnt, so i still dont even know about this one, i doubt shes forgievn me. i said sorry in alot of different ways, and she just said, "lets just forget about this whole thing" and i know shes not willing to do that.
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