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well we have had a date, got on well, he said he had a good time and wants to see me again. since then i invited him to go to the movies once, he declined. then he said to please let him know when i am next available to go out, i said "sure". now i don't feel like ringing him, because i feel as though i already made the last move, the trouble is, the ball is now in my court. suggestions?

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then he said to please let him know when i am next available to go out, i said "sure"

 

What kind of a weaselly wussy way is that to ask a girl out? In fact, he didn't ask you out at all. He declined one invitation of yours & then invited YOU to ask HIM again sometime. He's got some cheek, I'll give him that.

 

Your response of "sure" was the wrong one, you should have said you have my number, call me.

 

now i don't feel like ringing him

 

Then don't.

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then he said to please let him know when i am next available to go out, i said "sure"

 

What kind of a weaselly wussy way is that to ask a girl out? In fact, he didn't ask you out at all. He declined one invitation of yours & then invited YOU to ask HIM again sometime. He's got some cheek, I'll give him that.

 

Your response of "sure" was the wrong one, you should have said you have my number, call me.

 

now i don't feel like ringing him

 

Then don't.

 

oh, you are right, i shouldnt have responded like i did. i was caught off guard as he seemed to like me and i didnt expect him to decline. i suppose i havent lost much then as he wasnt interested to begin with, if he was he would have jumped at the chance to go out with me. thankyou for your help

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