Curious..... Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? or are most just looking for a friend with benefits?
superconductor Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 Yes, because there really is nothing like communion with another human being. When you think each other's thoughts, make each other cum, hold each other in tragedy and despair, and celebrate with each other during life's peaks, there's nothing like it in the world. No, because after marriage, women almost always change. They morph from a hot girlfriend who loves sex and can't do enough for their man, to someone who thinks once a month is more than enough and nags the poor fellow to death.
Guest Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? or are most just looking for a friend with benefits? The times have switched, many women I have met want more than one man in their life......me I'm a one-woman man all the way....TM
scrybe74 Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 I think if most men were honest about it.....the answer would be both. He'd want one woman to share his life with, to love, to build a family and to grow old with. He'd like to have other women(an) occasionally for a fling or for fun but nothing serious....mostly physical. If this were socially acceptable in our society I wouldn't be surprised by the number of men that would engage in this. But since it's not then it won't. Men (and women) will simply cheat (for those that can't resist) and for the others that have the urge but can resist.....fantasies......
monkey00 Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? or are most just looking for a friend with benefits? that couldnt be farther from the truth. Women love sex just as much as guys do. the exception is that women may use sex to attain love, which generally isnt the same case for guys.
TheSilentType Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? or are most just looking for a friend with benefits? i'd like one woman in my life....but i'm beginning to feel its unrealistic to expect that.
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 after marriage, women almost always change. They morph from a hot girlfriend who loves sex and can't do enough for their man, to someone who thinks once a month is more than enough and nags the poor fellow to death.So women nag because men stay the same - the same hot, sweet, loving, caring, smiling, listening, funny studs they were in the dating phase? Just like I sad earlier today, women just love to nag and never have a reason for that. Thank god I am not one of them... I always have a good reason!
Pink Amulet Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 that couldnt be farther from the truth. Women love sex just as much as guys do. the exception is that women may use sex to attain love, which generally isnt the same case for guys. Tell that to my stalkers hahaha
Pink Amulet Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 i'd like one woman in my life....but i'm beginning to feel its unrealistic to expect that. Why? OP- it is a sweeping generalisation... Not ALL men or woman are conditioned in any particular way.
migs Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 Yes, because there really is nothing like communion with another human being. When you think each other's thoughts, make each other cum, hold each other in tragedy and despair, and celebrate with each other during life's peaks, there's nothing like it in the world. No, because after marriage, women almost always change. They morph from a hot girlfriend who loves sex and can't do enough for their man, to someone who thinks once a month is more than enough and nags the poor fellow to death. I've had the opposite problem. There are times (and this is in every relationship I've had, including my current marriage) that I don't want sex, but would be content to just hold each other. Some of them have become irritable and I've just given in to keep peace, but I've never had the reverse problem. When asked, my wife says that she cannot lie next to me without becoming aroused, and when I inquired why she stated something about excessive pheromones. I'm vaguely familiar with this, but it seems too simplistic an answer. Since this has been the case for so many years (I'm now 52), and my daughter experiences the same thing, perhaps there's some truth to it. My wife is a brilliant woman and not prone to fabrication. Even though we are now split up (but still married) she is still the same way with me--and in truth there are times I simply don't want to do other than cuddle. I understand that it must be frustrating to have desire unfullfilled and my situation is rather uncommon, but I assume it does exist with others. And to answer the original post, I live in the US with more than a 50% divorce rate--and I remember the impression made on me seeing an old couple holding hands at a restaurant. This is what I wanted that love/affection/shared life. I did the short affair/one nighters/etc. between marriage and it is sheer empty. I also did the generational thing, going out with women far younger than I--it doesn't work for me as we have nothing in common. I was a single dad for years and raised a daughter and a son who is autistic. Although I have been cheated on, I have never done so in a committed relationship as it is contrary to my moral code (not religious, just have a conscience).
real_freakin_skater Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 yes...i want one girl at a time because it will strain you to think of alot girls at the same time, what if you mix up a name or bump into one when your with another one? i could get pretty weird. i think i'll stick with one and keep my penis!!!
Poboy Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? Mostly yes , but the answers are different before/after marriage or are most just looking for a friend with benefits? Not most but the trend is surely on the rise
remedylane Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 in all honesty, I just want one women in my life to be with me forever. I don't care about sleeping around or whatever. I can wait till marriage even.
Pyro Posted September 3, 2006 Posted September 3, 2006 do guys want just one person in their life the same way girls do? or are most just looking for a friend with benefits? It varies greatly. You will find many of both. Some guys want to find the one true love and some guys don't want any committment, just the sex.
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