Guest Posted August 22, 2006 Posted August 22, 2006 I am worried over my b/f leaving the area. His brother and wife will be moving to a new state. They have a 1 year old and one on the way. My b/f is close with his family. The mother takes care of the grandchild a lot. When i speak to her she says I don't fly, i would have to take a train to visit---so it makes me think she does not want to leave her house. My b/f has his own place but stays with his mother and older sister. The mother then mentioned to my b/f--oh if i did go where would you live(b/c my b/f mentioned to her about living there) and then she said she forgot he had his own place. The mother then said i have a place to go already. Doesnt it sound like she already made up her mind? I think if the mother left to live near them, my b/f would too. The thought of this happening really makes me sad and i can't just wait and be like--well lets worry when it does happen or if. The brother then bought a second house and i am assuming he would want to rent it out in order to make money. I am wondering if he is just going to offer it to his mother to pay the rent if she lives there. I would hope this wouldnt come up or my b/f would stay to be with me. What do you guys think?
Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Posted August 25, 2006 Noone has any advice? Also my b/f and his brother were talking on the phone and my b/f said u can hardly get guys to work here--how would u find them there---but also--his brother cant expect only him and my b/f to do all that work which would take years can he? he needs to hire workers for this.
Guest Posted October 21, 2006 Posted October 21, 2006 He mentioned about sometimes going there to help him move all the equipment--so some weekend trips i am assuming might happen...i dont like the idea of him gone on the weekends like this...what do i do? i can't stop him.
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